The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy
Your Guide to Open Relationships, Polyamory and Letting Go

I'm an anxious person who has had the Non-Monogamy feelings. My partner is an anxious person who has not. I don't know how it will turn out, but this is the first book that made me think i could actually have a conversation about it.......more

I really liked this book, especially the parts that detailed the unique challenges of being disabled and non-monogamous.......more

Phoenix’s writing feels like a transcribed podcast composed of therapy notes and their own journaling; the book is therefore very self-referential. Phoenix provides a number of helpful paragraphs that attempt to pick apart how trauma and anxiety affect adult relationships. Phoenix also touches on som......more

i sped through this book. definitely loved the idea that we’re all human and messy and even if you feel like you’re not “doing it right” there’s no RIGHT way to do anything….especially when it comes to navigating complex relationships!!! also LOVED the little prompted questions, will be using these......more

I found this book a very helpful read as it is written from the perspective of a disabled, neurodivergent, asexual person which really sets the book apart from other guides on polyamory that I’ve read. The author addresses challenges that can occur throughout non-monogamy that can be especially diff......more