Multiamory, Dedeker Winston
Multiamory, Dedeker Winston
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Multiamory
Essential Tools for Modern Relationships

Author: Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, Emily Sotelo Matlack

Narrator: Emily Sotelo Matlack

Unabridged: 8 hr 25 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 03/18/2025


Synopsis

When Multiamory authors Dedeker Winston, Emily Sotelo Matlack, and Jase Lindgren started producing their advice show about polyamory and other non-traditional relationships, they received dozens of questions from listeners about all sorts of relationship quandaries and communication stalemates. They quickly found out that existing relationship tools weren't up to the task.

Over the course of many years and hundreds of episodes, they have spent hours nerding out over research, reading up on evidence-based relationship advice, and listening to the personal struggles of hundreds of couples and individuals. This has led to the creation of Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships, a curated collection of the most popular communication tools, advice, and wisdom from the Multiamory podcast that have helped thousands of listeners. In this book, you'll learn how to: get what you need out of conversations with your partner with the Triforce of Communication; create Microscripts that will interrupt old patterns, diffuse tension, and form better communication habits; process and reconnect after an argument with Repair SHOP; determine your unique processing style, and how it may be clashing with your partner's; set up a regular RADAR check-in to support the long-term health of all of your relationships.

Contains mature themes.

About Dedeker Winston

Dedeker Winston was raised to be a wholesome, born-again Christian conservative but later opted to be a sex-positive polyamory activist, relationship coach, reality-TV celebrity, and nude model. She currently provides one-on-one coaching services for people transitioning into non-monogamy. When she isn't coaching, writing, or spending time with her multiple partners, she enjoys backpacking around the globe, playing video games, and obsessively applying lip balm. She is from Chico, California.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Samantha on September 14, 2023

I adore this podcast and having the resources in a book was excellent. I’ll be using this both professionally and personally.......more

Goodreads review by Jessica on January 02, 2024

I'm a long-time fan of the Multiamory podcast and was excited when I heard they were going to be putting out a book. While I've listened to the show long enough that there wasn't much new content for me, I think this is an excellent guide to the most helpful tools the Multiamory team has created ove......more

Goodreads review by Paige on August 13, 2023

I think every person, regardless of gender, sexual identity, relationship style, etc., could learn something from this book. It's solid, science-backed advice for relationships and communication from a viewpoint that's as inclusive as possible. I'm resisting the urge to buy this for everyone for Chr......more

Goodreads review by Lily on June 17, 2025

This book could have been an email. I say it in jest, but I’m not sure if the tools, stories, and lessons in this book needed to be a book, or if blog posts would have shared the information just as well in a more concise manner. I think the methods contained are important, and having a book certainly......more

Goodreads review by hollydoe on October 29, 2024

I loved the book as much as the podcast......more