Asking for a Friend, Jessica Weisberg
Asking for a Friend, Jessica Weisberg
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Asking for a Friend
Three Centuries of Advice on Life, Love, Money, and Other Burning Questions from a Nation Obsessed

Author: Jessica Weisberg

Narrator: Karissa Vacker

Unabridged: 9 hr 19 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 04/03/2018


Synopsis

A delightful history of Americans' obsession with advice -- from Poor Richard to Dr. Spock to Miss Manners

Americans, for all our talk of pulling ourselves up by our bootstraps, obsessively seek advice on matters large and small. Perhaps precisely because we believe in bettering ourselves and our circumstances in life, we ask for guidance constantly. And this has been true since our nation's earliest days: from the colonial era on, there have always been people eager to step up and offer advice, some of it lousy, some of it thoughtful, but all of it read and debated by generations of Americans.

Jessica Weisberg takes readers on a tour of the advice-givers who have made their names, and sometimes their fortunes, by telling Americans what to do. You probably don't want to follow all the advice they proffered. Eating graham crackers will not make you a better person, and wearing blue to work won't guarantee a promotion. But for all that has changed in American life, it's a comfort to know that our hang-ups, fears, and hopes have not. We've always loved seeking advice -- so long as it's anonymous, and as long as it's clear that we're not asking for ourselves; we're just asking for a friend.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Eloise on May 02, 2024

Eden Jones is an ace, bi and non binary teen with social anxiety, who has told their mother they have many friends at their new school. The problem is... they don't. So when Eden's mom throws a party and invites what she thinks is Eden's friends, Eden has to try to befriend them for real. Asking For......more

Goodreads review by Mimi on October 29, 2023

My heart is so full 🥰......more

Goodreads review by Andrew on June 03, 2024

A LOT of really great and amazing representation! Each character was so different and so dynamic that I really appreciated the variety of characters we learn about! The plot was interesting and I love a story that gets tangled in lies. You just know it’s all going to blow up but you just can’t wait!......more

Goodreads review by Kay on August 12, 2024

Queer. Joy. That's what this book is. It's well written, delightful, queer joy. I love how naturally this adorable queer friend-group starts; just queer folk being drawn together by forces outside their own control (like all queer friend-groups). As joyful as it is, the gang deals with real problem......more

Goodreads review by Shannon on June 06, 2024

Another hit from Canadian middle grade author Ronnie Riley. This book sees nonbinary Eden getting caught up in a web of lies when they mislead their single mother into believing they've made a bunch of friends at their new school. Full of a great cast of queer friends (a lesbian, a trans boy, a gend......more


Quotes

"Take my advice and read this fascinating book immediately. It's the only piece of advice I can offer that even begins to compare to the advice of the writers it chronicles. Whether it's Benjamin Franklin, Dr. Spock, or 'The King of Quora,' Jessica Weisberg captures her subjects' work and personalities with engaging insight. As she does so, she also offers an illuminating look into what society craves advice on in any given age (from retaining your job in the 1930s to retaining your marriage in the 1990s). It's a must read for anyone who loves learning about history and human angst, as well as those who love their local paper's advice column."—Jennifer Wright, author of It Ended Badly: 13 of the Worst Breakups in History

"Rich with insight and surprising facts, Jessica Weisberg's ingenious appraisal of America's guidance-givers doubles as a wholly unexpected history of our national psyche. At long last, the lowly advice column gets its due!"—Kate Bolick, author of Spinster: Making a Life of One's Own

"An oddly soothing antidote to the millenarian terrors of today, Jessica Weisberg's history of ordinary American anxiety is as warm, funny, entertaining, and chattily insightful as the advice-dispensers she portrays. In the centuries before the internet, these were the ones we turned to with questions so obscure, embarrassing, weird, or mortifyingly personal that only a stranger would do."—Larissa MacFarquhar, authorof Strangers Drowning: ImpossibleIdealism, Drastic Choices, and the Urge to Help

"Jessica Weisberg's hilarious, enlightening odyssey through the history of advice columns chronicles the evolution of our anxieties over how to act. However weird or offensive some of our questions have been, it's heartening to know that at least we've always been trying. A surprising and delightful read."—Mac McClelland, author of Irritable Hearts: A PTSD Love Story

"Welcome to a hilarious dinner party of outrageous characters! Each one of Weisberg's profiles is like a witty, surprisingly profound toast. I can't stop talking about this book to everyone I know; it snuck up on me as one of the most insightful books about human nature that I've ever read."—Courtney E.Martin, author of The New Better Off:Reinventing the American Dream