Allow Me to Introduce Myself, Onyi Nwabineli
Allow Me to Introduce Myself, Onyi Nwabineli
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Allow Me to Introduce Myself
A Novel

Author: Onyi Nwabineli

Narrator: Nneka Okoye

Unabridged: 10 hr 8 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 05/28/2024


Synopsis

Her life. Her rules. Finally.

Anuri Chinasa has had enough. And really, who can blame her? She was the unwilling star of her stepmother’s social media empire before “momfluencers” were even a thing. For years, Ophelia documented every birthday, every skinned knee, every milestone and meltdown for millions of strangers to fawn over and pick apart.

Now, at twenty-five, Anuri is desperate to put her way-too-public past behind her and start living on her own terms. But it’s not going so great. She can barely walk down the street without someone recognizing her, and the fraught relationship with her father has fallen apart. Then there’s her PhD application (still unfinished) and her drinking problem (still going strong). When every detail of her childhood was so intensely scrutinized, how can she tell what she really wants?

Still, Ophelia is never far away and has made it clear she won’t go down without a fight. With Noelle, Anuri’s five-year-old half sister now being forced down the same path, Anuri discovers she has a new mission in life…

To take back control of the family narrative.

Through biting wit and heartfelt introspection, this darkly humorous story dives deep into the deceptive allure of a picture-perfect existence, the overexposure of children in social media and the excitement of self-discovery.
 

About Onyi Nwabineli

Onyi Nwabineli is a Nigerian British head-wrap aficionado. Born in Benin, Nigeria, she grew up in Glasgow, the Isle of Man and Newcastle, and now lives in London. Onyi is the cofounder of Surviving Out Loud, a fund that provides fiscal support for survivors of sexual assault, and the founder of Black Pens (black-pens.com), a writing retreat for Black womxn. Someday, Maybe is her debut novel. www.Onyi-Nwabineli.com


Reviews

Goodreads review by Kate

And possibly more stars ... This book absolutely knocked me for six. I'd been reading a few books but this was the one I looked forward to most. Then I got to two thirds through and had to stay up half the night to finish because I couldn't bear not knowing the outcome. We follow the story of Ańụrị an......more

Fresh, timely, interesting and unforgettable Onyi Nwabineli writes an amazing book that I cannot stop thinking about. In Allow Me To Introduce Myself we meet Anuri who wants independence. Her mother died during child birth and her father in an effort to curb his grief moved to London with Anuri,......more

Goodreads review by Lola

A tack-sharp beautifully told tale of self agency and reclaiming your power. Nwabineli creates deeply drawn characters, uses perfect metaphors, and possesses an immersive storytelling style that never releases its grasp on you as you journey into the darkest recesses of her characters. Nwabineli is......more

“Ańųrį wondered whether or not these parents understood that kids are autonomous little beings; that they are tiny humans developing their own personalities and forging together likes they would go on to live independently of their families” Onyi writes so poetically. Her choice and arrangement of wo......more

Goodreads review by Jordan

I really wanted to love this one. I was looking forward to Nwabineli’s critique of family vlogger/mom influencer type content. and while it was definitely there, it also felt fairly reserved. throughout the book the author touches on topics like adults forming parasocial relationships with kids onli......more