The Myth of Surrender, Kelly OConnor McNees
The Myth of Surrender, Kelly OConnor McNees
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The Myth of Surrender
A Novel

Author: Kelly O'Connor McNees

Narrator: Carlotta Brentan

Unabridged: 10 hr 40 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 03/01/2022


Synopsis

In 1960, free-spirited Doreen is a recent high-school grad and waitress in a Chicago diner. She doesn't know Margie, sixteen and bookish, who lives a sheltered suburban life, but they soon meet when unplanned pregnancies send them to the Holy Family Home for the Wayward in rural Illinois. Assigned as roommates because their due dates line up, Margie and Doreen navigate Holy Family’s culture of secrecy and shame and become fast friends as the weight of their coming decision—to keep or surrender their babies—becomes clear.

Except, they soon realize, the decision has already been made for them. Holy Family, like many of the maternity homes where 1.5 million women "relinquished" their babies in what is now known as the Baby Scoop Era, is not interested in what the birth mothers want. In its zeal to make the babies "legitimate" in closed adoptions, Holy Family manipulates and bullies birth mothers, often coercing them to sign away their parental rights while still under the effects of anesthesia.

What happens next, as their babies are born and they leave Holy Family behind, will force each woman to confront the depths and limits of motherhood and friendship, and fight to reclaim control over their own lives.


About Kelly O'Connor McNees

Kelly O'Connor McNees is the critically acclaimed author of The Lost Summer of Louisa May Alcott, In Need of a Good Wife, and The Island of Doves. She lives in Chicago with her husband and daughter.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Shirley on February 23, 2022

Girls in Trouble An incredible story of girls lives interrupted. Choices made for them by others and life changing events which would always be with them. Young and frightened, scared and ashamed they all came to the Holy Family home for wayward girls. They were told it was for the best that they cou......more

Goodreads review by Jane on August 31, 2022

As an adoptee from the peak of the Baby Scoop Era, I expected much more from this book. In the epilogue the author states “adoption is not the trauma here.” The author is mistaken. Adoption is most certainly the trauma. The narratives of the two teenage biological mothers is gripping, but it is not d......more

Goodreads review by Didi on February 06, 2025

To be honest, as an adopted (and formerly in foster care) person myself, I am fairly picky when it comes to reading novels about adoption and foster care. There are always plenty to choose from, and of course I am like that about memoirs/non-fiction too, but if it is someone writing about their own......more

Goodreads review by Shannon on February 27, 2022

A moving and incredibly well-written novel about Maternity homes and the widespread forced adoptions that took place among young, unwed mothers in the 1960s. I really enjoyed that the story was told through two girls, giving insight into two very different experiences some these young girls had. Dor......more

Goodreads review by Megan on February 24, 2022

*I received a free audio ARC via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.* Poignant, deep, thought-provoking. The Myth of Surrender covers a dark period of our history which most are still unaware of - the Baby Scoop Era, when thousands of babies were torn from unwed mothers and adopted out. It......more