The Monkey Is the Messenger, Ralph De La Rosa
The Monkey Is the Messenger, Ralph De La Rosa
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The Monkey Is the Messenger
Meditation and What Your Busy Mind Is Trying to Tell You

Author: Ralph De La Rosa

Series: Shambhala

Narrator: Ralph De La Rosa, Cassandra Campbell

Unabridged: 16 hr 39 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 11/13/2018


Synopsis

Hope for all those who want to meditate but feel they can't because they think too much: A remedy. Making friends with the infamous "monkey mind" to make it a means for healing and awakening.

It's a common story. Someone wants to take up meditation, but they take themselves to be one of those people for whom it just doesn't work because they think too much. And they give it up in frustration after an hour or a couple weeks or a year. But though it is often taken to be the scourge of meditators, repetitive and excessive thinking is an experience common to everyone. The Buddha famously called it "monkey mind," and that term has become nearly a household phrase. At worst, when people sit down to meditate and invariably find themselves distracted, subtle and not-so-subtle forms of self-aggression and self-recrimination tend to ensue over an experience that is as natural as it unpreventable. At best, the monkey mind is viewed as an obstruction to a deeper way of being; something to ignore, a pest to move beyond. Such an idea often crops up in today's mindfulness culture, in which a myth prevails that meditation is about "emptying out thoughts" or "shutting off the mind."

The truth is, says Ralph De La Rosa, repetitive thinking is a natural function of the human organism that, like all other aspects of our being, serves a purpose-one that is bound up with the activity of awakening. When we stop dismissing this tendency and instead turn toward it, we can discover far-reaching implications in service of well-being, emotional intelligence, cultivating lovingkindness, healing trauma, and developing compassion. Using psychotherapeutic, somatic, and mindfulness-based approaches, The Monkey Is the Messenger is a guide to working productively in meditation practice, in our psychologies, and even in the broader social issues that often lie behind threatening monkey-mind thinking. It will issue a call for readers to end the war they wage with themselves and to meet their minds in a manner that is appropriately informed, efficacious, and enjoyable.

Bonus: Includes guided meditations at the end of the program.

About The Author

Ralph De La Rosa is a therapist, meditation teacher, storyteller, and musician. A graduate of Fordham University's Graduate School of Social Services, he is trained in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy (TF-CBT) and incorporates Internal Family Systems therapy (IFS) alongside traditional psychotherapy in his work. He has been featured in numerous publications including GQ, SELF, Women's Health, and Elephant Journal. He currently resides in New York City.


Reviews

I’m sure some of us have thought about meditation in some point of our life. (Maybe you’re thinking about it at the moment?) Maybe you tried it and loved it. Or failed. I’m sure many of us think that meditation = not thinking. Or maybe you have the feeling that it is wrong to think anything while medi......more

“The Monkey Is the Messenger: Meditation and What Your Busy Mind Is Trying to Tell You” by Ralph De La Rosa reframes the concept of a mind that won’t quiet down during meditation. The author, a psychotherapist, life coach, rogue meditation teacher, storyteller, and musician whose works has been feat......more

I read this book, like all my meditation books, with a pencil in hand. I had to sharpen my pencil over and over again because I underlined so many great lines, explanations, definitions, and concepts. I am entirely impressed with how seemingly effortlessly RDLR explains complex encounters I've had i......more

Wow! Buddhist lovingkindness and psych Internal Family Systems work... Who'd a thunk it? May we all awaken and be free!......more