Stop People Pleasing, Chase Hill
Stop People Pleasing, Chase Hill
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Stop People Pleasing
How to Start Saying No, Set Healthy Boundaries, and Express Yourself

Author: Chase Hill

Narrator: Dave Thackara

Unabridged: 3 hr 10 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Chase Hill

Published: 12/02/2020


Synopsis

Do you say yes to people so often, you've forgotten how it feels to say no? You're not alone.Many people spend years putting aside their own wants and needs in order to please the people in their life and avoid conflict. Although there will always be situations where diplomacy is important, you cannot define your life through other people.There's a fine line between being considerate of others, and compromising your individuality, and you can slip into living as a people-pleaser without even realizing it.While these habits might seem to dominate everything you do, there are actionable steps you can take to create a new world--one where you are open and confident in what you say and do.By helping you identify the steps that will assist you the most, Chase Hill shows it is possible to start changing, right here and right now.In Stop People Pleasing, you will discover:The 10 signs that indicate people-pleasing characteristics, besides the inability to say noA step-by-step 14-day action plan to help you achieve instant and notable improvementsThe 4 defense mechanisms specific to people pleasing, how to identify them, and how to respond to themMultiple exercises and approaches to help you rediscover who you are at heart, breaking free from feeling the need to seek validation from othersCoping mechanisms designed to help you overcome discomfort or frustration as you redefine the boundaries in your lifeYou deserve to make the choices that YOU want to make, and speak your mind without fear or anxiety.With the right tools and techniques by your side, you will be able to hit the ground running and be one step closer to living your life the way you want to live it.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Gareth

This book didn’t live up to my expectations. A big part of that is on me because I assumed too much from the title and didn’t do enough research about what this book was about. However, I also don’t think the author quite addresses the topic in the title, which is why I have given this book 3-stars......more

Goodreads review by Jamie

Didn’t Always See Connections to People Pleasing I read a lot of nonfiction, so I tend to be fussy about it. I expect a book to be precisely about the topic and nothing more. This book went off on too many tangents. It would have been a much shorter book if the author kept on point. I didn't understa......more

This is an insightful and practical guidebook for anyone struggling with the habit of constantly putting others' needs before their own. With clear and concise language, Hill offers actionable tips and strategies for breaking free from the people-pleasing cycle and developing healthy boundaries. The......more

Goodreads review by Daniel

Succinct and full of ideas I am very much a people pleasing sort of person, it is nice to read that there are others out there and there are ways of overcoming this type of issue. It establishes the core premise and just builds on it for the whole book. It is succinct and to the point, and with it no......more

Goodreads review by Ollie

I chose this audiobook because I am clearly a people pleaser who wanted to learn how to create boundaries at work. I rated it a five since it addressed some of the challenges I was experiencing with saying no without feeling guilty or giving up on people's requests. Exceptionally enlightening and we......more