Raising Ollie, Tom Rademacher
Raising Ollie, Tom Rademacher
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Raising Ollie
How My Nonbinary Art-Nerd Kid Changed (Nearly) Everything I Know

Author: Tom Rademacher

Narrator: Roger Wayne

Unabridged: 5 hr 21 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 03/29/2022


Synopsis

Ollie, who used to hate weekends because they meant no school, was crying on the way to school almost every day. Sure, there were the slings and arrows of bullies and bad teachers, but, maybe worse, Ollie, a funny, anxious, smart kid, was gravely underchallenged and also struggling with identity and how to live totally as themselves. Ollie begged to switch to a new school with "kids like me," and so they made the change.

Raising Ollie is dad Tom Rademacher's story (really, many stories) of that eventful and sometimes painful school year, parenting Ollie and relearning every day what it means to be a father and teacher. As Ollie—who is nonbinary and uses they/them pronouns—flourishes in their new school, Rademacher is making an eye-opening adjustment to a new school of his own, one that's whiter and more suburban than anywhere he has previously taught, with a history of racial tension that he tries to address and navigate.

While Ollie is learning to finally feel comfortable at school, Rademacher increasingly sees how his own educational struggles, anxieties, and childhood upbringing are reflected in his teaching, writing, and parenting, as well as in Ollie's experience. He shows us how raising a kid changes everything—and how much raising a kid like Ollie can teach us about who we are and what we're doing in the world.

About Tom Rademacher

Tom Rademacher is an English teacher in Minneapolis. His writing has appeared in EdPost, MinnPost, and on his blog, Mr. Rad's Neighborhood, and he speaks about teaching at universities, conferences, and TEDx events. In 2014 he was honored as Minnesota's Teacher of the Year.


Reviews

Goodreads review by R.J. on November 21, 2021

This memoir made me happy mostly for the positivity of the subject matter. As a queer, genderfluid parent, I really appreciated how the author shared stories about his nonbinary kid, Ollie. Ollie’s being nonbinary wasn’t the main focus, which I also appreciated because there is so much more to a per......more

Goodreads review by Marley on October 10, 2021

I read this book in one sitting and cried/smiled the whole time. Its pages are infused with empathy and hope for young people; anyone who works with kids (or people, really) should read Raising Ollie.......more

Goodreads review by Barbara on April 10, 2022

Huge thanks to University of Minnesota Press for sending me the copy in exchange for an honest review. I have to admit I was super excited to start from the moment I read the synopsis. And I was not disappointed. I don't read alot of nonfiction books, memoirs, autobiographies etc. but this was probab......more

Goodreads review by Nicole on August 16, 2023

Audiobook......more

Goodreads review by James on January 05, 2022

I have never seen narcissism like this in a work of nonfiction. It's astounding. I can't believe I even finished reading it. VERY little of the book was about having a non-binary child. That's just a gimmick to help the author market the book. Mostly, it's the ramblings of a teacher who has issues wi......more