Love Busters, Willard F. Harley
Love Busters, Willard F. Harley
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Love Busters
Protect Your Marriage by Replacing Love-Busting Patterns with Love-Building Habits

Author: Willard F. Harley

Narrator: Willard F. Harley

Unabridged: 10 hr 49 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: One Audiobooks

Published: 08/18/2020


Synopsis

According to relationship expert and bestselling author Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr., after couples get married, they often develop habits that slowly undermine the love they have for each other. If tolerated, these Love Busters--selfish demands, disrespectful judgments, angry outbursts, dishonesty, annoying habits, and independent behavior--will destroy a couple's love for each other. The solution, however, isn't merely to avoid these negative behaviors and attitudes. Rather, it's to cultivate Love Builders--positive habits that will strengthen the relationship.

With Dr. Harley's expert guidance, couples will be able to avoid the major causes of marital unhappiness and disappointment. Instead of tearing their marriage apart, they will learn to build it into the marriage they had needed and wanted. This book is a perfect companion to His Needs, Her Needs and will be useful to pastors, counselors, and couples.

About The Author

Dr. Willard F. Harley, Jr. is a nationally acclaimed clinical psychologist, a marriage counselor, and the bestselling author of numerous books, including His Needs, Her Needs; Five Steps to Romantic Love; Surviving an Affair; Draw Close; and He Wins, She Wins. Harley's much-loved book, His Needs, Her Needs, is also available with a video curriculum for churches and small groups. His popular website, www.marriagebuilders.com, offers practical solutions to almost any marital problem.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Randi on March 08, 2021

Overall, this book is a great read as ways to fight and compromise healthily in your relationship. There are a lot of healthy approaches to conflict in this that I really appreciated. It seems like the kind of book to read if you're "on the rocks," but it's actually a great book to read just because......more

Goodreads review by Rebekka on January 11, 2017

I've wavered back and forth between giving it 2 or 3 stars (if I could I would've given it 2.5 stars), but in the end the strengths were just so few considering how flawed it is. Love Busters is heterocentric, and perpetuates old and tired stereotypes of gender essentialism. It advocates complete ho......more

Goodreads review by Monica on May 10, 2017

In this book, the Author describes five behaviors that he says destroy romantic relationships as well as friendships. He calls them love busters. He offers a plan for identifying which of these behaviors are involved in your relationship and then teaches you how to reduce them or illuminate them all......more

Goodreads review by Marjanne on January 27, 2017

While I thought this book was a worthwhile read, I don’t feel like it changed me much. Dr. Harley has some good ideas for resolving marriage conflicts, as well as how to maintain a romantic relationship. However, I’m not sure I agree with everything he suggests and I probably won’t be integrating al......more

Goodreads review by Aamina on July 19, 2022

Love how practical and informative this book is. Some favourite passages: “What starts out as a caring and thoughtful relationship often disintegrates into thoughtlessness” “In marriage, you have an unprecedented opportunity to make your spouse happy” The policy of joint agreement: Never do anything......more