Better Never to Have Been, David Benatar
Better Never to Have Been, David Benatar
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Better Never to Have Been
The Harm of Coming into Existence

Author: David Benatar

Narrator: Dennis Kleinman

Unabridged: 7 hr 26 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 01/24/2023

Includes: Bonus Material Bonus Material Included


Synopsis

Most people believe that they were either benefited or at least not harmed by being brought into existence. Thus, if they ever do reflect on whether they should bring others into existence—rather than having children without even thinking about whether they should—they presume that they do them no harm. Better Never to Have Been challenges these assumptions. David Benatar argues that coming into existence is always a serious harm. Those who never exist cannot be deprived. However, by coming into existence one does suffer quite serious harms that could not have befallen one had one not come into existence. Drawing on the relevant psychological literature, the author shows that there are a number of well-documented features of human psychology that explain why people systematically overestimate the quality of their lives and why they are thus resistant to the suggestion that they were seriously harmed by being brought into existence. The author then argues for the "anti-natal" view—that it is always wrong to have children—and he shows that combining the anti-natal view with common pro-choice views about fetal moral status yield a "pro-death" view about abortion. Although counter-intuitive for many, that implication is defended, not least by showing that it solves many conundrums of moral theory about population.

About David Benatar

David Benatar is currently senior lecturer in the philosophy department at the University of Cape Town, South Africa. He received his PhD from that university, did post-doctoral work at the University of Wisconsin-Madison from 1993 to 1995, and was visiting assistant professor at the College of Charleston, South Carolina, from 1995 until 1997. His teaching and research interests are in moral philosophy and related areas. In 1999 he was awarded the University of Cape Town's Distinguished Teacher Award.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Augusts on April 11, 2011

Mr. Benatar sticks it out alone. In the face of religion and base natural drives he argues that there is nothing intrinsically good about procreation. He goes even further than that and, striking repulsion in the faces most potential and actual parents, denouncing them as "playing Russian roulette w......more

Goodreads review by J on July 23, 2022

This book gives us great advice, but of course we won't take it. No, our extinction will not be deliberate.......more

Goodreads review by Rory on July 11, 2016

As noted on the blurb of this book, Benatar defends a view that 'almost no one accepts': coming into existence is always a serious harm. Indeed, though he doesn't state it in these terms, his conclusions hold not just for the actual world, but also entail that, for any logically possible world, comi......more

Goodreads review by Sarah on March 03, 2020

What's peculiar is that I thought the kernel of Benatar's case against existence to be axiomatic. An asymmetry in judging the (bad) in states of existence and non-existence. The bad being suffering, illness, and human condition variety. The existent is benefited from the good in life, and adversitie......more

Goodreads review by Leo on August 13, 2020

I was unconvinced from the very beginning. Which isn’t to say I had a closed mind to these ideas, but I knew that, whether I was swayed, the conclusion on how I should live would be exactly the same anyway: minimise harm where possible, enjoy life when possible, maximise meaning when possible, and d......more