What We Talk About When We Talk About..., Sohaila Abdulali
What We Talk About When We Talk About..., Sohaila Abdulali
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What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape

Author: Sohaila Abdulali

Narrator: Sohaila Abdulali

Unabridged: 5 hr 57 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 11/27/2018


Synopsis

After surviving gang-rape at seventeen in Mumbai, Sohaila Abdulali was indignant about the deafening silence that followed and wrote a fiery piece about the perception of rape—and rape victims—for a women's magazine. Thirty years later, with no notice, her article reappeared and went viral in the wake of the 2012 fatal gang-rape in New Delhi, prompting her to write a New York Times op-ed about healing from rape that was widely circulated. Now, Abdulali has written What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape——a thoughtful, generous, unflinching look at rape and rape culture.

Drawing on her own experience and her work with hundreds of survivors as the head of a rape crisis center in Boston, Abdulali tackles some of our thorniest questions about rape, articulating the confounding way we account for who gets raped and why. In interviews with survivors from around the world we hear moving personal accounts of hard-earned strength, humor, and wisdom that collectively tell the larger story of what rape means and how healing can occur. Abdulali also points to the questions we don't talk about: Is rape always a life-defining event? Is one rape worse than another? Is a world without rape possible?

What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape is a book for this #MeToo and #TimesUp age that will stay with listeners—men and women alike—for a long, long time.

About Sohaila Abdulali

Sohaila Abdulali was born in Mumbai and moved to the United States with her family when she was a teenager. Since then, she has lived in both countries. She has a BA from Brandeis University in economics and sociology and an MA from Stanford University in communication. Her undergraduate thesis dealt with the socio-economics of rape in India. She is the author of two novels as well as children's books and short stories. Her writing frequently appears in the Guardian and other newspapers. She lives in New York with her husband and their daughter.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Rosh

One of the worst horrors in reality occurs when a person breaches the physical boundaries of another person forcibly. When you are reading a book dealing with a topic as brutal as rape, it is quite hard to keep aside your personal feelings and review it objectively. But when the author herself appro......more