ValuesAligned Sexuality, Rebbeca Lahann, PsyD
ValuesAligned Sexuality, Rebbeca Lahann, PsyD
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Values-Aligned Sexuality
A Guide to Desire, Connection, and a Sex Life That Feels Authentically Yours-- An Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Approach

Author: Rebbeca Lahann, PsyD

Narrator: Rachael Doolen

Unabridged: TBD

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/09/2027


Synopsis

An Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) approach to nurturing a more intentional, true-to-you sex life that aligns with your unique wants, needs, desires, and values.

Dr. Rebbeca Lahann offers a path to bridge the “authenticity gap”—the disconnect between our sexual behaviors and our values—and helps us embrace our desires, identities, and relationships with openness and clarity.

This book is not a one-size-fits-all rulebook for sex. Written for readers who want to live fuller, more satisfying, and authentic intimate lives, Values-Aligned Sexuality helps you understand yourself and your desires better—and moves you toward actualizing what you really want. Whether you’re single or partnered, queer or straight, or in monogamous, poly, ENM, kinky, or queerplatonic relationships: this book is for you.

Through practical exercises and evidence-based strategies, you’ll learn how to:

Identify and get to know your authentic sexual valuesUnderstand the cultural scripts and inherited narratives that shape intimacy (even when you don't realize it)Manage difficult emotions like shame, anxiety, fear, and moreEnhance your presence and connection in relationshipsApply mindfulness exercises and partnered practicesDetach from unhelpful thought patterns with the author’s LLAMA—Label, Let Go, Allow, Mindfulness, and Approach—methodMove toward what you want in alignment with your sexual values
Integrating a holistic biopsychosocial perspective, this book helps you build psychological flexibility, self-trust, and intentional action. Rather than supplying you with rigid, standardized, vanilla, or unrealistic advice, Dr. Lahann gives you the tools to navigate your intimate life and realize it on your terms—and shows you how to deepen your connections, relationships, and sexual fulfillment.

About The Author

Rebbeca Lahann, Psy.D., CST is an award-winning licensed clinical psychologist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with more than 25 years of specialized experience in sex therapy, mental health, and values-based living. She serves as clinical director of Spectrum Psychology and Wellness, a multi-location group practice in Arizona known for its holistic approach to sexuality, chronic health, and psychological resilience.Dr. Lahann is the originator of the concept of "sexual values"—a groundbreaking framework integrating Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) with sex therapy—and the culmination of decades of clinical innovation. She has served as president of the Arizona Psychological Association and the Arizona Psychology Training Consortium, and currently chairs the AASECT Continuing Education Committee. A sought-after speaker and media contributor, her work has appeared in The National Psychologist, and on podcasts including Sex Advice for Seniors and Loving Without Boundaries.


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"This book offers something rare: a practical, evidence-based framework for closing the distance between the sex life people are living and the one they actually want."
—Jessica Fern, integrative therapist and author of Polysecure

"Values-Aligned Sexuality brings the heart of ACT—psychological flexibility in service of chosen values—into human intimacy with unusual warmth, clarity, and practical exercises that readers can actually use.... Highly recommended."
—Steven C. Hayes, PhD, originator of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and author of Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life

"Smart, timely, and deeply affirming.... Anyone who reads this book is likely to come away more sexually self-aware, more confident in their choices, and better equipped to create intimacy that is authentic, ethical, and deeply satisfying."
—Laurie Mintz, PhD, author of Becoming Cliterate

"A timely and important book."
—Ian Kerner, PhD, author of The New York Times bestseller She Comes First

"A compassionate, insightful, and practical guide."
—Russ Harris, MD, author of The Happiness Trap and ACT Made Simple

"Values-Aligned Sexuality offers a clear path toward intimacy that feels aligned, embodied, and truly our own."
—Nicole LePera, PhD, author of the #1 New York Times bestsellers How to Do the Work and How to Be the Love You Seek

"This book gently guides readers toward the ability to make values-led choices around sex, desire, and connection."
—Sara Nasserzadeh, PhD, award-winning author of Love by Design

"[This book offers] insight and clarity for anyone looking for more intimacy, pleasure, and connection."
—Tammy Nelson, PhD, author of Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy

"Warm, practical, and deeply affirming ... a powerful resource."
—Laurie Betito, PhD, clinical psychologist, certified psychosexual therapist, and host of Passion with Dr. Laurie

"An articulate, important addition to the sexuality literature that's also a pleasure to read."
—Michael Castleman, author of Sizzling Sex for Life

"A powerful road map for cultivating meaningful, connected, and values-driven sexual lives that feel genuinely fulfilling."
—Lori Brotto, PhD, author of Better Sex Through Mindfulness

"A practical, compassionate guide for building intimacy that reflects what actually matters to people.... A courageous and clinically grounded contribution."
—Joseph Ciarrochi, PhD, coauthor of The Thriving Adolescent

"A much-needed refocusing of attention in the modern world of overwhelming sexual messages."
—Francesca Gentille, clinical sexologist and professor at the International Institute of Clinical Sexology

"This book invites us to go deeper in understanding what we care about so that our intimate lives can reflect a more authentic, values-aligned, and wise way of loving."
—Diana Hill, PhD, author of Wise Effort

"A powerful addition to the field.... A gift to our ever-expanding growth in the realm of sex therapy."
—Heather Hillenbrand, LMFT, CST, AASECT-certified sex therapist and owner of Soul Fire Sex and Relationship Therapy

"In an anxious world where it seems we are perpetually holding our breath, this book is the much-needed exhale."
—Paula Leech, LMFT, CST-S, author of Overcoming Anxiety in Sex and Relationships

"Values-Aligned Sexuality will help every reader discover the why behind what they do."
—Lauren Elise Rogers, CHSE, EIRC, host of Sex Ed for You