Tell Me What You Like
An Honest Discussion of Sex and Intimacy After Sexual Assault

This was a very triggering read—but also incredibly validating and necessary. It’s one of those books that forces you to sit with hard truths: about trauma, consent, shame, healing, and the way our society so often fails survivors. At times I had to pause the audiobook because I felt the familiar wei......more

To be published July 29, 2025. Please be mindful of trigger warnings when picking up this book- this book can feel like the entire litany of feelings after an assault and while the author is delicate and heartfelt, the honesty and experiences can be hard- be kind to yourself. The author addresses se......more

This book/ audio book is a book that includes the experiences of the author and how she and the people she interviewed moved through trauma through to processing their healing. This is seen as a process rather than an a to b final destination journey which was refreshing. I listened to this the audi......more

4 stars Book Content/Trigger Warnings: - sexual abuse - sexual assault - sexual trauma I was very excited to read this being I’m a sexual assault, trauma, and abuse survivor myself. I liked that the survivors stories were very relatable, and I personally felt a connection to a lot of their experiences a......more

Tell Me What You Like is the book I wish I had when I was younger. It is a compassionate companion that reminds the reader with a tone of affirmation through individual interviews and stories that there is no one-size-fits-all ‘correct’ answer to healing from sexual trauma. But there are many option......more