Shes Just Spirited, Nefertiti Austin
Shes Just Spirited, Nefertiti Austin
List: $19.99 | Sale: $13.99
Club: $9.99

She's Just Spirited
Parenting a Neurodivergent Child and the Diagnosis That Changes Everything

Author: Nefertiti Austin

Narrator: Nefertiti Austin

Unabridged: 6 hr 56 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 11/25/2025


Synopsis

One diagnosis can change everything. That is what Nefertiti Austin discovered when she was told her daughter Cherish had ADHD and SPD. After much learning, on both their parts, Nefertiti and Cherish finally found the letters that worked for them, chief among them M-O-M.

In She's Just Spirited: Parenting a Neurodivergent Child and the Diagnosis That Changes Everything, Nefertiti captures the failures and triumphs of raising a neurodivergent child. Alongside relatable anecdotes from her own experiences, Nefertiti offers insight from experts and easy to digest strategies she wishes she had had from the start. She also shines a light on why many neurodivergent children and teenagers are overlooked and undiagnosed—often due to hurtful stereotypes, gender bias, racism, and homophobia in the healthcare and education systems—and what parents can do to ensure their child is evaluated by the right people at the right time.

With tips for navigating the mental health and educational systems, deciphering psychological jargon, advocating for your child, and encouraging family and friends to get on board, She's Just Spirited is an invaluable and relatable guide that empowers parents to fully love and support their neurodivergent child in all aspects of life.

About Nefertiti Austin

Nefertiti Austin, an author and memoirist, writes about the erasure of diverse voices in motherhood. Her work around this topic has been short-listed for literary awards and appeared in a number of media outlets, including the Huffington Post, Essence.com, Mutha and Adoptive Families magazines, PBS SoCal's "To Foster Change", and PBS Parents. Nefertiti's expertise stems from firsthand experience and degrees in U.S. history and African American studies. Nefertiti is a former Certified PS-MAPP Trainer, where she co-led classes for participants wanting to attain a license to foster and/or adopt children from the foster care system. An alumna of Breadloaf Writers' Conference and VONA, her first two novels, Eternity and Abandon, helped usher in the black romance genre in the mid-1990s.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Aoife on November 21, 2025

I’ve read quite a lot about neurodivergence, but in what these books have pointed out is that the majority of research was on white males. The author soon realised this on her journey of motherhood. She adopted her daughter Cherish and realised books on neurodivergence didn’t represent her reality,......more

Goodreads review by Luna on November 25, 2025

As the parent of a neurodivergent child myself, this reading was enlightening on some points, gave me ideas and forced me to rethink the way I approach some difficulties.It also opened my eyes to other realities I hadn't thought of yet. Some parts of this book talks about programs and things that ar......more

Goodreads review by Alita on November 29, 2025

A thoughtful and well researched guide that originates from a mother's love for her child. She's Just Spirited offers a fresh perspective on how we, as parents, teachers, trusted adults and caregivers, can best show up for our children with neurological differences. Insightful and well written, I se......more

Goodreads review by Dee Your on February 19, 2026

This book is an insightful look into raising a beautiful divergent child while giving them the care and respect they deserve. This book is eye opening and one I would recommend.......more