Our Search for Belonging, Howard J. Ross
Our Search for Belonging, Howard J. Ross
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Our Search for Belonging
How Our Need to Connect Is Tearing Us Apart

Author: Howard J. Ross, JonRobert Tartaglione, Johnnetta Betsch Cole

Narrator: Wes Bleed

Unabridged: 8 hr 47 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Ascent Audio

Published: 05/08/2018


Synopsis

Why are we so divided today? Paradoxically, Howard Ross, author of Everyday Bias, says it's our compulsion to belong to a group--something hardwired into us-- that ends up making us deeply connected with some, yet deeply divided from others. Ross shows how we can overcome this growing tribalism.

We are living in a world of almost unparalleled separation. People are no longer disagreeing, but are instead disavowing each other's rights to an opinion. What is driving this polarization, and how can we overcome it? Howard Ross says that ironically it's our profound need to belong. He delves deeply into the powerful psychological, neurological, and biological forces that drive us to want to identify so strongly with a group we're sometimes even willing to sacrifice our individual identity.
Drawing on his decades of leadership in the diversity and inclusion field, Ross probes the depth and impact of this growing tribalism, the role social media plays in exacerbating it, the ways it impacts every aspect of the daily lives, and how to combat it. Readers will gain tools for exploring contentious dialogue in healthier ways and guidelines for breaking down barriers and building bridges across difference, and organizations and institutions will be able to develop approaches that can open dialogue and encourage mutual understanding.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Tiffany on June 26, 2018

The belonging aspect of our nature is thoroughly explored in this book. However, little space is given establishing bridges to belonging and what is given is very theoretical and lacking in practical examples or outcomes. This book is best considered a resource for exploring how human beings experie......more

Goodreads review by David on August 18, 2020

I appreciate the content of this book. It's challenging to accept that we have bias and that bias is a good thing, Howard's book helped me rationalize why those base instincts to make an immediate judgement are hard wired into our genetics as a survival skill. He creates a useful boundary explaining......more

Goodreads review by Adriane on July 11, 2021

This book helped me understand where my personal bias manifests itself and what to look for to allow myself to experience a broader perspective. The most impactful lesson I took away from this is that you have to separate the individual from the beliefs. I now find myself trying to find ways in whic......more

Goodreads review by GuardedLegacy on November 16, 2022

I did not enjoy this book and didn't get much out of it until chapter 6. Not that it's bad information, just that I've heard or read a lot of these ideas before. I recently read Simon Sinek's Leaders Eat Last, and although the two books have a different focus and intended audience, I think Simon conv......more

Goodreads review by ALLONE on August 12, 2021

"Our Search for Belonging" will stimulate your thinking and help you clarify who you really are and why you are here. Filled with many wonderful stories to illustrate the authors teachings, you will come away with new insights that will make life's journey more fulfilling and worthwhile. Highly reco......more