Its Not Always Depression, Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Its Not Always Depression, Hilary Jacobs Hendel
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It's Not Always Depression
Working the Change Triangle to Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self

Author: Hilary Jacobs Hendel, Diana Fosha

Narrator: Hilary Jacobs Hendel, Cassandra Campbell

Unabridged: 8 hr 15 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/06/2018

Includes: Bonus Material Bonus Material Included


Synopsis

Fascinating patient stories and dynamic exercises help you connect to healing emotions, ease anxiety and depression, and discover your authentic self.
 
Sara suffered a debilitating fear of asserting herself. Spencer experienced crippling social anxiety. Bonnie was shut down, disconnected from her feelings. These patients all came to psychotherapist Hilary Jacobs Hendel seeking treatment for depression, but in fact none of them were chemically depressed. Rather, Jacobs Hendel found that they’d all experienced traumas in their youth that caused them to put up emotional defenses that masqueraded as symptoms of depression. Jacobs Hendel led these patients and others toward lives newly capable of joy and fulfillment through an empathic and effective therapeutic approach that draws on the latest science about the healing power of our emotions.
 
Whereas conventional therapy encourages patients to talk through past events that may trigger anxiety and depression, accelerated experiential dynamic psychotherapy (AEDP), the method practiced by Jacobs Hendel and pioneered by Diana Fosha, PhD, teaches us to identify the defenses and inhibitory emotions (shame, guilt, and anxiety) that block core emotions (anger, sadness, fear, disgust, joy, excitement, and sexual excitement). Fully experiencing core emotions allows us to enter an openhearted state where we are calm, curious, connected, compassionate, confident, courageous, and clear.
 
In It’s Not Always Depression, Jacobs Hendel shares a unique and pragmatic tool called the Change Triangle—a guide to carry you from a place of disconnection back to your true self. In these pages, she teaches lay readers and helping professionals alike
 
• why all emotions—even the most painful—have value.
• how to identify emotions and the defenses we put up against them.
• how to get to the root of anxiety—the most common mental illness of our time.
• how to have compassion for the child you were and the adult you are.
 
Jacobs Hendel provides navigational tools, body and thought exercises, candid personal anecdotes, and profound insights gleaned from her patients’ remarkable breakthroughs. She shows us how to work the Change Triangle in our everyday lives and chart a deeply personal, powerful, and hopeful course to psychological well-being and emotional engagement.

Includes a bonus PDF of figures and exercises.

About The Author

Hilary Jacobs Hendel, LCSW, received her BA in biochemistry from Wesleyan University and an MSW from Fordham University. She is a certified psychoanalyst and AEDP psychotherapist and supervisor. She has published articles in The New York Times and professional journals. Jacobs Hendel also consulted on the psychological development of characters on AMC’s Mad Men. She lives in New York City.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Morgan on July 15, 2021

Great book. Its Not Always Depression is based on Diana Fosha’s, Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP). AEDP assumes: 1. the transformation drive (i.e. the desire to heal and grow) is basic and innate to Human nature. 2. healing change occurs as the patient forms new expectations for r......more

Goodreads review by Larry on January 07, 2018

As a psychiatrist and therapist for over 40 years I have always encouraged my patients to pay attention to how they are feeling and thinking. To deny or avoid one's true feelings and emotions leads to a multitude of problems and symptoms from states of depression to anxiety and everything in between......more

Goodreads review by Kelly on January 09, 2019

This book is incredible. I had two immediate thoughts when picking it up at the library. 1. I won't understand it / this information will go over my head 2. It's an older / outdated book (purely judging a book by the cover) Both of those, it turns out, were false assumptions. My fear with any psycholog......more

Goodreads review by Saloni (earnestlyeccentric) on January 28, 2022

A book on using the change triangle to become more self-aware of your emotions. So, nothing new here. Spoilers ahead. This was a non-fiction book so will be a general review rather than focusing on the usual plot and pacing, characters and writing style. It's Not Always Depression, if you didn't gather......more

Goodreads review by Mary ☘️ on January 16, 2025

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