How to be a Gentlewoman, Lotte Jeffs
How to be a Gentlewoman, Lotte Jeffs
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How to be a Gentlewoman
The Art of Soft Power in Hard Times

Author: Lotte Jeffs

Narrator: Lotte Jeffs

Unabridged: 5 hr 53 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Cassell

Published: 09/05/2019


Synopsis

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'This is brilliant and timely' Elizabeth Day

'Part memoir, part manual - this is the type of book every modern woman can take something from' Grazia

Learn to navigate the harshness of life with soft power. In her debut book, Lotte Jeffs weaves powerful life experience with practical advice and a psychological deep-dive into what truly constitutes an emotionally rich and meaningful existence. She speaks to everyone from agony aunts and archaeologists, to pop stars and novelists, to explore a diverse picture of what it is to truly live life well.

How to be a Gentlewoman will teach you how to slow down, lean out, recognize good relationships and let go of the bad, create a space you love, find your people and construct a happy and 'joined up' sense of yourself.

The gentle antidote to a brutal world.

For fans of Dolly Alderton's Everything I Know About Love and Elizabeth Day's How to Fail.

About Lotte Jeffs

In 2016 Lotte Jeffs won 'Writer of The Year' at the Press and Publishing Association Awards. The following year she was shortlisted for 'Columnist of the Year' for her ELLE magazine column, Lotte's Lexicon. She has been a features writer and columnist for the past 15 years, writing for the Guardian, the Saturday Times, the Sunday Times, the Evening Standard, YOU magazine and ELLE. Lotte has enjoyed a successful career on staff at magazines most recently as Deputy Editor and Acting Editor in Chief of ELLE. She has appeared on TV and radio and reguarly hosts and participates in industry panel discussions. Lotte was head-hunted by the global advertising agency Ogilvy to join its UK office as a Creative Director. She now works freelance as a writer and creative consultant. Having pivoted into a different, but similar, industry she continues to keep a toe in journalism, writing a Notebook column for the Evening Standard, features for the national press and celebrity cover interviews for newspaper supplements and magazines. She lives in London with her wife, Jenny, and their daughter.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Kay on November 12, 2019

This book blends how to be a gentlewoman with the author's personal experiences providing reasoning and real life examples. Although I don't think this is the definitive book of being a gentlewoman, it's well researched and does open the topic for today's times. As the author is British, I do think......more

Goodreads review by Crystal on September 01, 2020

I wasn't overly impressed by this book if I'm being honest. I felt that it was really prescriptive and a little 'preachy'. I wouldn't have usually picked up a book like this, but thought that I would give it a try since my bookclub were reading it. Upon completing it, I actually thought that at part......more

Goodreads review by Grace on January 14, 2020

Thoroughly enjoyed this book. I loved the format with different interviews, lists, recipes and tips. Reading this it felt like a close knowledgeable friend guiding you through some of the difficulties of the modern world with ease and grace.......more


Quotes

Lotte Jeffs is a fresh, unique and wry voice who writes with generosity and insight - the epitome of a gentlewoman, in fact. This is a brilliant and timely exploration of what it means to be a successful female in the 21st century. Elizabeth Day, author of How to Fail

Lotte is an eloquent and modern voice. How to Be A Gentlewoman is smart, inclusive and authentic. Lorraine Candy, Editor-in-Chief of Sunday Times Style

Part memoir, part manual - this is the type of book every modern woman can take something from. Grazia

How to be a Gentlewoman feels both authentic and fresh. The Times