Formula of Desire
What Brings Us Together and Drives Us Apart, and the Science of Connection

It’s time to debunk the myth that desire “just happens,” or that it inevitably fades over time. The Formula of Desire reveals that sustaining passion is a skill, not an accident—and shows readers how to master it. Grounded in more than fifteen years of research and clinical experience, Anna Elton introduces the evidence-based Relational Desire Formula to help couples take ownership of their connection, reignite intimacy, and build lasting satisfaction.