Challenging Casanova, Andrew P. Smiler
Challenging Casanova, Andrew P. Smiler
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Challenging Casanova
Beyond the Stereotype of the Promiscuous Young Male

Author: Andrew P. Smiler

Narrator: Carl Randolph

Unabridged: 7 hr 2 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 07/20/2020


Synopsis

In his new groundbreaking book, noted expert on teenage and adult masculine behavior Andrew Smiler debunks the myth that teenage boys and young men are barely able to control their sex drives, which may lead to destructive hyper-sexuality, unwanted pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases. Dr. Smilers goal is to help us all recognize that boys sexual development is multi-faceted and to give us the tools we need to keep the stereotype from becoming a self-fulfilling prophecy.  The author also shows how this shift in attitude could help create young men who are more mature, and have better relationships with partners and friends. Explains how the Casanova Complex has developed over time and how it can hurt young males  Provides the latest research-based information on male sexuality, pulling from many sources, including the authors own studies. Offers guidance for parents and counselors of boys who want to help them develop lasting and meaningful relationships, as well as for the parents of girls who are dating. This book dismantles the stereotypes of boys as driven only by an obsession with having intercourse with multiple partners, and calls for deeper growth and understanding of modern masculinity.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Kate

Ok, full disclosure: I'm married to the author. But I'm not a psychologist, I don't study media or gender or anything like that, so while I've heard a lot about his work over the years, I've never read much of it. And I think this book gives a great "big picture" look at why ways we talk about and t......more

Goodreads review by Lance

Boys don't have to be "boys" but we sure want them to think so. Overall, I appreciate Smiler's effort to delegitimize male culture that emphasizes and trains men to be "Casanovas" (promiscuous and disregardful of women). He hits upon several points that correspond to my own experience while also lea......more

Goodreads review by Matthew

Through reliable research this book was able to achieve its aims: "(to) dismantle the stereotype of boys as driven only by an obsession with having intercourse with multiple partners, and call for deeper growth and understanding of modern masculinity". Most of the research presented did not seem ext......more