Blind to Betrayal, Jennifer Freyd
Blind to Betrayal, Jennifer Freyd
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Blind to Betrayal
Why We Fool Ourselves We Aren't Being Fooled

Author: Jennifer Freyd, Pamela Birrell

Narrator: Rebecca Gunn

Unabridged: 7 hr 59 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/25/2026


Synopsis

One of the world's top experts on betrayal looks at why we often can't see it right in front of our facesIf the cover-up is worse than the crime, blindness to betrayal can be worse than the betrayal itself. Whether the betrayer is an unfaithful spouse, an abusive authority figure, an unfair boss, or a corrupt institution, we often refuse to see the truth order to protect ourselves. This book explores the fascinating phenomenon of how and why we ignore or deny betrayal, and what we can gain by transforming "betrayal blindness" into insight.Explains the psychological phenomenon of "betrayal blindness", in which we implicitly choose unawareness in order to avoid the risk of seeing treachery or injusticeBased on the authors' substantial original research and clinical experience carried out over the last decade as well as their own story of confronting betrayalFilled with fascinating case studies involving unfaithful spouses, abusive authority figures and corrupt institutions, to name a fewIn a remarkable collaboration of science and clinical perspectives, Jennifer Freyd, one of the world's top experts on betrayal and child abuse, teams up with Pamela Birrell, a psychotherapist and educator with 25 years of experience.This audiobook is read by Rebecca Gunn, with engineering by Sam Platt.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Mtkays on April 22, 2014

I'm keep this short and sweet. It's a great book for anyone to read. It's written so that even readers that are not in the psychology field can understand it's message. I feel that it can bring to the surface many of our own behaviors as well as bring to awareness how we may treat people in ways tha......more

Goodreads review by laura on May 09, 2019

i find that the public-facing work of research psychologists is usually pretty bad. this is true even when i really admire the underlying research project. it just usually feels like they've taken a cool insight and then lost most of what's deep and illuminating about it by trying to explain it in s......more

Goodreads review by Lore on May 19, 2020

Me lo devoré! THIS is how you make a book proposing a model. I've read this to make a video essay about Sybil (woman with DID), it lead me to read Sybil exposed, and it lead me to read more on False Memory Syndrome, which lead me to read anything about Jennifer Freyd. And it kinda NOT surprise me Natha......more

Goodreads review by N on March 04, 2025

A bit too repetitive 2.5⭐️......more

Goodreads review by Laura on February 24, 2013

I had the good fortune to read this book in manuscript form, and to have begun to integrate the authors' ideas into my work already. If you've ever been betrayed, if you've ever ignored yourself being betrayed, then reading this book will illuminate those experiences for you, and empower you to stop......more