And Every Morning the Way Home Gets L..., Fredrik Backman
And Every Morning the Way Home Gets L..., Fredrik Backman
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And Every Morning the Way Home Gets Longer and Longer
A Novella

Author: Fredrik Backman

Narrator: David Morse

Unabridged: 1 hr 9 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 11/01/2016


Synopsis

From the New York Times bestselling author of A Man Called Ove, Anxious People, and My Friends, a profoundly moving novella about an elderly man’s struggle to hold on to his happy memories, face his regrets, and help his son and grandson learn to say goodbye to him.

“We know so little about how the brain works. It’s like a fading star right now, do you remember what I taught you about that?”

“When a star fades, it takes a long time for us to realize, as long as it takes for the last of its light to reach earth.”

Grandpa and Noah are sitting on a bench in a round square that keeps getting smaller every day. Noah isn’t sure how they got there or how to get home. The square is strange but also familiar, full of the stuff that has made up their lives—Grandpa’s work desk, the stuffed dragon that Grandpa once gave to Noah, the sweet-smelling hyacinths that Grandma loved to grow in her garden.

As they wait together on the bench, they tell jokes and discuss their shared love of mathematics. Grandpa recalls what it was like to fall in love with his wife, what it was like to lose her. She’s as real to him now as the first day he met her, but he dreads the day when he won’t remember her at all, much less the extraordinarily ordinary life they lived. (Or was it ordinarily extraordinary?)

Sometimes Grandpa finds himself sitting on the bench next to Ted, Noah’s father. Ted, who never liked math, prefers writing and playing guitar, and has waited his entire life for his father to have time for him, to accept him. But in their love of Noah, they have found a common bond.

Grandpa, Grandma, Ted, and Noah all meet here, in this peculiar space that is growing dim and getting more confusing all the time. And here is where they will learn to say goodbye, the scent of hyacinths in the air, nothing to fear.

About Fredrik Backman

It is always interesting to me to hear the answers given by authors when they are asked questions such as........how did you know you wanted to be a writer or author, or how do you begin to construct a new novel? There are many who try their hand at writing, but very few actually become successful authors. Swedish author, Fredrik Backman made a huge leap in changing careers when he became an author after earning a living as a fork lift driver. The two do not appear compatible, but having a blue collar job probably added a degree of realism to the books written by Backman.

Backman is a solid story teller, but does not consider himself to be a good technical writer. He gives credit to his wife and to his publisher and editors for assisting in that department. But, it is the storyline that sells books, not technical writing skills, and Backman has had much success along those lines. His books such as, A Man Called Ove, My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry, and Britt-Marie Was Here are published in many different countries, and several different languages. There seems to be a true, honest, humorous tone to each of his books.

Backman has a very easy way of structuring his novels, usually setting the beginning and the ending first, then he is free to fill in the middle with his storytelling ability. For example, Britt-Marie Was Here became a separate novel after she was a seven year old character in My Grandmother Asked Me to Tell You She's Sorry. As he completed that book, he said that it seemed only natural to him that Britt-Marie have her own book. The book follows her as she goes on a quest, gets challenged, meets new friends, overcomes adversity, stands up to injustice, all to eventually learn important facts about herself. He says that writing about this character is like writing about hero types, minus the swords, lasers, and fire-breathing dragons. It is a very interesting way of explaining his concept.

In his newest book, the emphasis will be on ice hockey, for as he says.....I am Swedish, and that's what we do. It will be about a town....not one specific character......and ice hockey will be the center of the story. He says that is all he has as an idea about the book at this point. He sums up his future in writing in this way........ I plan to write until people tell me I can't anymore.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Lisa of Troy on February 01, 2024

Not What I Was Expecting And Every Morning The Way Home Gets Longer and Longer is a short story about a grandfather, son, and grandson where the grandfather is battling dementia and approaching death. The grandfather has suffered losses in his life and has regrets but also has so many beautiful, exqu......more

Goodreads review by Angela M on October 29, 2016

I'm finding it difficult to know what else to say besides what a beautiful, beautiful story , so full of love and life , even in the wake of loss . What it's about is best described by Backman himself in his letter to the reader at the beginning. "This is a story about memories and about letting go.......more

Goodreads review by Canadian Jen on February 12, 2017

This one left me speechless as it hit too close to home. It's the story of how to say good-bye to someone you are losing to Alzheimer's. It's the story of a grandpa and grandson - and their shared love of mathematics and how grandpa tries to define what is happening to him while wrestling with the f......more

Goodreads review by Clace on May 03, 2025

Five bright shining stars! “It's an awful thing to miss someone who's still here.” This book made me feel so much!! Like it hit so hard and I resonated with this book so much and it's shocking how these 75 pages brought me to the verge if tears. This story is honestly so beautiful and the way it g......more

Goodreads review by Katie on February 13, 2022

December 2021: Why am I putting myself through this again a month later? I must be a masochist. The first time I read it physically. This time I listened to the audio. Both are 5 star favorites. The narration of the grandpa was so sweet and realistic. I sobbed just as hard as the first time. This book......more