Pretty Bitches, Lizzie Skurnick
Pretty Bitches, Lizzie Skurnick
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Pretty Bitches
On Being Called Crazy, Angry, Bossy, Frumpy, Feisty, and All the Other Words That Are Used to Undermine Women

Author: Lizzie Skurnick, Rebecca Traister

Narrator: Andrea Lopez, Shayna Small, Carolyne Leys, Kasey Lee Huizinga, Erica Wides, Judith Pasko, Galena White, Maybe Burke

Unabridged: 8 hr 2 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Seal Press

Published: 03/03/2020

Includes: Bonus Material Bonus Material Included


Synopsis

These empowering essays from leading women writers examine the power of the gendered language that is used to diminish women -- and imagine a more liberated world.

Words matter. They wound, they inflate, they define, they demean. They have nuance and power. "Effortless," "Sassy," "Ambitious," "Aggressive": What subtle digs and sneaky implications are conveyed when women are described with words like these? Words are made into weapons, warnings, praise, and blame, bearing an outsized influence on women's lives -- to say nothing of our moods.

No one knows this better than Lizzie Skurnick, writer of the New York Times' column "That Should be A Word"and a veritable queen of cultural coinage. And in Pretty Bitches, Skurnick has rounded up a group of powerhouse women writers to take on the hidden meanings of these words, and how they can limit our worlds -- or liberate them.

From Laura Lipmann and Meg Wolizer to Jennifer Weiner and Rebecca Traister, each writer uses her word as a vehicle for memoir, cultural commentary, critique, or all three. Spanning the street, the bedroom, the voting booth, and the workplace, these simple words have huge stories behind them -- stories it's time to examine, re-imagine, and change.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Sahitya on February 02, 2020

More of a solid 3.5 but I’m rounding up. I knew I had to read this book as soon as I saw the title. Every single word that the authors discuss in this collection of essays has a history of dehumanization and insult when attributed to women, even though some of them don’t feel so on the face. Some of......more

Goodreads review by Laura on October 27, 2022

I will now share the following collection of gems that I transcribed from this enjoyable collection of essays on being anything that defies the status quo while female. “I was and am driven by relentless curiosity. I wonder about everything all the time. I ask endless questions because the world fasc......more

Goodreads review by samantha on February 07, 2021

So good on audio!! Really enjoyed this book of essays about women’s experiences of being judged for being strong, independent, bossy and every other word you can think of and how they’ve over come it.......more

Goodreads review by Jenny on January 11, 2021

This book sees me: fat, intimidating, ambitious, crazy, aloof, shrill, feisty, too, mom. “America hates women and we’re all fucking tired.” Amen sister.......more

Goodreads review by Katie on October 02, 2024

Put a fork in me I’m done.......more


Quotes

"Clever and potent.... The book's smart premise and the incisive essays themselves are immensely relatable and should provide a great catalyst for personal introspection and thoughtful and productive discussion."—Booklist (starred review)

"Sharp-witted and intimate.... An eloquent inquiry into how language enshrines gender stereotypes."—Publishers Weekly

"This uplifting collection serves as a good first step toward highlighting what's wrong with how women are talked about.... A galvanizing, sharp compendium."—Kirkus

"Note to men: When you describe an ex-girlfriend or wife 'crazy,' all it tells me is that you're an emotional idiot. Note to women: This great new book by Lizzie Skurnick recasts the various insults directed at us for decades and centuries, breathing confident life into what it means to be an unabashed, bossy, crazy-ass bitch."—Anna Holmes, founder of Jezebel and editor of The Book of Jezebel: An Illustrated Encyclopedia of Lady Things and Hell Hath No Fury: Women's Letters from the End of the Affair

"This book is hilarious, amazing, and inspiring. An incredible anthology of brilliant women. Buy this book today, preferably more than one copy."—Molly Jong-Fast, author of The Social Climber's Handbook and Girl [Maladjusted]: True Stories from a Semi-Celebrity Childhood

"Lizzie Skurnick has been the go to person for words for as long as I can remember. Now, she has gone even further, redefining the way we use them. This collection of breathtaking essays shows how seemingly innocuous words (and some pretty ugly ones, too) were once used to keep women down -- but not anymore. Take that, mansplainers. Pretty Bitches is truly something."—Marcy Dermansky, author of Very Nice and The Red Car

"Funny, trenchant, moving, breathtaking -- the essays here remake a language that has been used so often to trap women so that it can free them instead. A prismatic look at the state of being a woman today, from some of our best living writers."—Alexander Chee, author of Edinburgh, The Queen of the Night, and How to Write an Autobiographical Novel