Why Cant I Let You Go?, Kelly Skeen
Why Cant I Let You Go?, Kelly Skeen
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Why Can't I Let You Go?
Break Free from Trauma Bonds, End Toxic Relationships, and Develop Healthy Attachments

Author: Kelly Skeen, Michelle Skeen, PsyD

Narrator: Candace Joice

Unabridged: 5 hr 19 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 02/13/2024


Synopsis

If you experienced physical or emotional abuse, neglect, or abandonment as a child, you may struggle with unhealthy relationships as an adult. Hurtful attachments with our caregivers in early childhood can lay the foundation for toxic relationships. Those experiences can even affect the way we handle conflict, our feelings toward sex, and our expectations of our partners. But this doesn't mean you can't change. This book will help you gain a greater awareness of the trauma bonds that prevent you from getting the love, safety, and security you desire.

In Why Can't I Let You Go, relationship expert Michelle Skeen will help you identify your attachment style, core beliefs, and the harmful behavior patterns that are keeping you stuck in toxic relationships. You'll learn proven-effective skills to help you interrupt these unhelpful patterns and attachments in new and old relationships. You'll also discover what you really value in relationships and go on to develop healthy, secure, and lasting love.

Understanding yourself and your deeply held, and often unconscious, beliefs is the first step toward liberating yourself from trauma bonds. With this compassionate guide, you'll find the support and guidance needed to create the loving relationships you truly want.

About Kelly Skeen

Kelly Skeen is a graduate of Georgetown University in Washington, DC. As an American studies major, she concentrated in art and museum studies, and plans to pursue a career expanding access to the visual arts. She is coauthor, with her mother, Michelle Skeen, of Communication Skills for Teens. Skeen strives every day for greater self-acceptance and to embrace who she really is!


Reviews

Goodreads review by Anoud on February 11, 2024

If you read the book "Attached", then this book would be a great follow up to that book. I knew before hand my own attachment style and many information about attachment styles. However, that book didn't discuss in depth attachment bounding. If you didn't, then, this book will be an amazing introduct......more

Goodreads review by Jackson on February 13, 2024

The book "Why Can't I Let You Go?" is truly enlightening, offering a series of frameworks and exercises that empower readers to confront toxic relationships head-on. Dr. Skeen and Ms. Skeen have meticulously crafted a journey, beginning with the "Core Beliefs" framework, which lays a comprehensive g......more

Goodreads review by CAROLYN on May 25, 2024

Why Can’t I Let You go by Michelle Skeen This is a self help book that discusses trauma bonds and why and how we react to relationships based on our experiences from childhood. The book is interesting, going over different questions to try to help you figure out if your relationship are healthy. Ove......more

Goodreads review by Sophie on February 12, 2024

2 ⭐️ Ah yes, this was a great reminder why “self-help” non fiction is iffy for me. At first I was intrigued, because I thought there would be some useful information on trauma bonds and toxic relationships. Information wise, this barely scratched the surface and only stated a few facts that are somew......more

Goodreads review by Lexie on February 27, 2025

This book honestly surprised me with how helpful it was in identifying areas of your life and your relationships that need work in order to cultivate the healthy relationships you want to build. Skeen and Skeen utilize components of attachment theory, personality/temperament research, and core belie......more