What Comes Next and How to Like It, Abigail Thomas
What Comes Next and How to Like It, Abigail Thomas
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What Comes Next and How to Like It
A Memoir

Author: Abigail Thomas

Narrator: Abigail Thomas

Unabridged: 4 hr 13 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 03/24/2015


Synopsis

The New York Times bestseller from the beloved author of A Three Dog Life—an exhilarating, superbly written memoir on friendship, family, creativity, tragedy, and the richness of life: “If you only read one book this year, make it this one” (Ann Patchett).

In her bestselling memoir A Three Dog Life, Abigail Thomas wrote about the devastating loss of her husband. In What Comes Next and How to Like It, “a keenly observed memoir…Thomas writes of the changes aging brings us all and of coping through love: of family, dogs, a well-turned phrase. She is superb company” (People).

Thomas was startled to overhear herself described as “a nice old lady with a tattoo,” because she thinks of herself as not nice, not old, nor a lady. But she has wondered: what comes next? What comes after the death of a spouse? What form does a lifelong friendship take after deepest betrayal? How does a mother cope with her child’s dire illness? Or the death of a cherished dog?

And how to like it? How to accept, appreciate, enjoy? How to find solace and pleasure? How to sustain and be sustained by our most trusted, valuable companions? At its heart, What Comes Next and How to Like It is about the complicated friendship between Thomas and a man she met thirty-five years ago—a rich bond that has lasted through marriages, child-raising, and the vicissitudes and tragedies of life. “After all,” she writes, “there are those people we love, and then there are those we recognize. These are the unbreakable connections.”

Exquisitely observed, lush with sentences you will read over and over again, What Comes Next and How to Like It “is a beautifully felt, deeply moving memoir, the best work yet by a woman who has already done some of the best work in the field. Abigail Thomas is the Emily Dickinson of memoirists, and so much of this book’s wisdom is between the lines and in the white spaces. It may only take you two days to read, but the impact will stay with you for a long, long time” (Stephen King). This is a glorious guide to living imperfectly and exuberantly.

About Abigail Thomas

Abigail Thomas worked as both a book editor and book agent before writing her first short story collection, Getting Over Tom. Her second and third books An Actual Life, and Herb's Pajamas, were works of fiction. Her memoir, A Three Dog Life, was named one of the Best Books of the Year by The Los Angeles Times and The Washington Post. She is also author of the memoirs SafekeepingThinking About Memoir, and What Comes Next and How to Like It.  The daughter of renowned science writer Lewis Thomas (The Lives of a Cell), Thomas has four children, twelve grandchildren, and two great grandchildren. She lives in Woodstock, New York, with her dogs.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Camie on April 04, 2015

I received this book as an ARC from Schribner publishing. I am just finishing my tearful first reading of this memoir told in short vignettes, when my daughter Kate calls from an amusement park a few hours away from our house. "Mom, should I get the season passes, they are only the price of going tw......more

Goodreads review by Stuart on April 15, 2015

This book already ranks in the top 20 most beautiful books of the year for me. The brilliance in Thomas's writing is that each word, phrase and space is hand selected to form beautiful prose and thought provoking text in both everyday and extraordinary situations. The reader is not left with the fee......more

Goodreads review by Clif on April 26, 2017

This is a memoir/meditation of an older person (like me 70+) that recounts scattered snippets of a past and present life while taking an occasional speculative look into the future. The author's past life was perhaps a bit more complex than average—at one point she mentions that at age thirty-seven s......more

Goodreads review by Lara on June 01, 2015

2.5 stars. A quick read of short vignettes that included some poignant thoughts on aging and mortality amongst the banal paragraphs about binge-watching TV shows and far too many descriptions of painting on glass. This is the sort of book that only an established writer can get away with, and for th......more

Goodreads review by Nette on February 15, 2015

(Another ARC borrowed from the library staff room. God, I love being a library volunteer.) I like the way this woman writes, so funny and spare and honest. I finished the book in an evening and a morning and was thoroughly entertained. I'd recommend it to anyone. But I read this the day after I saw t......more