Upper Bohemia, Hayden Herrera
Upper Bohemia, Hayden Herrera
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Upper Bohemia
A Memoir

Author: Hayden Herrera

Narrator: Cynthia Farrell

Unabridged: 7 hr 21 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 06/22/2021


Synopsis

A New Yorker Best Book of 2021

A “touching, heartbreaking, and exceptional” (Town & Country) coming-of-age memoir by the daughter of artistic, bohemian parents—set against a backdrop of 1950s New York, Cape Cod, and Mexico.

Hayden Herrera’s parents each married five times; following their desires was more important to them than looking after their children. When Herrera was only three years old, her parents separated, and she and her sister moved from Cape Cod to New York City to live with their mother and their new hard-drinking stepfather. They saw their father only during the summers on the Cape, when they and the other neighborhood children would be left to their own devices by parents who were busy painting, writing, or composing music. These adults inhabited a world that Herrera’s mother called “upper bohemia,” a milieu of people born to privilege who chose to focus on the life of the mind. Her parents’ friends included such literary and artistic heavyweights as artist Max Ernst, writers Edmund Wilson and Mary McCarthy, architect Marcel Breuer, and collector Peggy Guggenheim.

On the surface, Herrera’s childhood was idyllic and surreal. But underneath, the pain of being a parent’s afterthought was acute. Upper Bohemia captures the tension between a child’s excitement at every new thing and her sadness at losing the comfort of a reliable family. For her parents, both painters, the thing that mattered most was beauty—and so her childhood was expanded by art and by a reverence for nature. But her early years were also marred by abuse and by absent, irresponsible adults. As a result, Herrera would move from place to place, parent to parent, relative to family friend, and school to school—eventually following her mother to Mexico. The stepparents and stepsiblings kept changing too.

Intimate and honest, Upper Bohemia “captures an enchanted but erratic childhood in a rarefied milieu with the critical but appreciative eye of a seasoned art historian” (The Wall Street Journal). It is a celebration of a wild and pleasure-filled way of living—and a poignant reminder of the toll such narcissism takes on the children raised in its grip.

About Hayden Herrera

Hayden Herrera is an art historian and the author of biographies of Frida Kahlo, Arshile Gorky, Mary Frank, Isamu Noguchi, and Henri Matisse. Her biography of Gorky was a finalist for the Pulitzer Prize, and her biography of Noguchi won the Los Angeles Times Book Prize. She lives in New York City and Cape Cod.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Kelsey

This memoir is a unique look into the eclectic childhood of Hayden Harrera and her sister Blair. As children of “bohemian” parents in the 1940s, both girls learned how to fend for their own in multiple boarding schools while their parents were shuffling through multiple spouses. With each new marria......more

Goodreads review by Michael

A person with an apparently interesting upbringing writes a tedious memoir. Her style is plain and the anecdotes she tells are unmemorable. I was hoping for so much out of this, based on the jacket and blurbs.......more

I was so mad I couldn't even cry, so I escaped from the house by a side door and went for a high-tide swim. Water always collected the pieces of me and put them back together.Written with a very deceptive simplicity in the voice of her childhood self, Hayden Herrera (who's about 80 at the time of t......more

Goodreads review by Janilyn

When I first read the synopsis I thought the time frame would be the 1960s. I was surprised it was actually the 1940s. Hayden's childhood was chaotic. Both parents had numerous partners and marriages. Both parents were self-absorbed and neglectful. I felt sorry for Hayden and her sister Blair. They......more


Quotes

"With a wistful intonation and an unhurried pace, Farrell expresses what Herrera chooses to leave unsaid or understated, illuminating the lasting impact that parental neglect has had on Herrera."