My Two Elaines
Learning, Coping, and Surviving as an Alzheimer’s Caregiver

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'My Two Elaines demonstrates beautifully that the journey is not just for the person with the diagnosis but for the spouse and family as well and that it is a journey to not attempt alone and unsupported. [Marty's] discussions will no doubt help those who may be afraid to admit they don't have it all under control. I highly recommend this book. It is a quick read that provides a lot of great advice that will decrease the learning curve immensely.' Tara Reed, author of What to Do Between the Tears: A Practical Guide to Dealing with a Dementia or Alzheimer’s Diagnosis in the Family

'My Two Elaines provides real life lessons about how to cope and survive each day with loving care, particularly when communica-tion is lost. Marty helps caregivers work through their guilt and sheds light on making difficult decisions when professional care is needed for a loved one. Most of all, Marty brings us an amazing story of love, understanding, and hope. It is one of the most moving and powerful stories I've read.' Julie Tombari, administrator, New Day Adult Care Center, North Palm Beach, Florida

'At one moment this book is a heart-wrenching account of the devastating toll of Alzheimer's, and the next moment it is a heart rending love story. The minute you are holding your breath at the brutality of the disease, Marty rescues you with a concrete, doable message that can lead to lovely moments of joy. No health-care pro-fessional, family member, or caregiver should be without it.' Dawn Adler, director, Ovation Adult Day Services, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, coauthor of Illuminate: An Integrated Curriculum for Early Memory Loss Programs

'I encourage my fellow health-care professionals to read and share this book.' Judy Beiler, RN, director, Global and Executive Health Program, Aurora Health Care

'I only wish my father had this book to help him during my own mother's illness.' Paula Kiely, city librarian, Milwaukee Public Library

'If you or someone you know is a caregiver, this is a must-read. Your loved one really does become a different person. As I learned from my mom's dementia, learning how to deal with her was key to ev-eryone's sanity. There are many helpful hints here.' Bonnie Blair, five-time Olympic gold medalist

'Marty has truly captured the essence of loving and caring for some-body with this disease. His book is insightful, thoughtful, heart-warming, and respectful. Marty's sense of humor and abundant pa-tience surely are a blessing for Elaine.' Scott McFadden, president and CEO, Lutheran Home and Harwood Place, Milwaukee, Wisconsin

'Marty Schreiber has written a book that is invaluable to the Alz-heimer's community. His personal experience (and wisdom gained) as a caregiver is shared in such an honest and impactful way that it should be mandatory reading for all individuals who step forward in this capacity.' David Simbro, senior vice president, Northwestern Mutual former member, Alzheimer’s Association Board of Directors

'Marty shares his personal story with dignity and grace. My Two Elaines helps the caregiver realize you must take care of yourself, have a sense of humor, and take advantage of help to survive the stressful days ahead. It is a great resource for families.' Linda Cody, director, Village Walk Senior Living, Patchogue, New York

'This book is a godsend for anyone caring for a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer's.' Booklist