Craigslist Confessional, Helena Dea Bala
Craigslist Confessional, Helena Dea Bala
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Craigslist Confessional
A Collection of Secrets from Anonymous Strangers

Author: Helena Dea Bala

Narrator: Full Cast

Unabridged: 8 hr 50 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 07/07/2020


Synopsis

“Touching.” —The New York Times

For fans of Humans of New York and PostSecret, a collection of raw, urgent, and heartfelt stories, shared anonymously.

Helena Dea Bala was an exhausted and isolated DC lobbyist, suffocating under the weight of her student loan debt, when she decided to split her lunch with a man who often panhandled near her office. They chatted effortlessly as they ate; there were no half-truths or white lies, and no fear of judgment. Helena felt connected and unburdened in a way she hadn’t in years.

Inspired, she posted an ad on Craigslist promising to listen, anonymously and for free, to whatever the speaker felt he or she couldn’t tell anyone else. Emails from people desperate to connect flooded her inbox, and she listened. Within months, Helena quit her job, deferred her loans, and dove into listening full time.

The forty first-person confessions in this book are vivid, intimate, and real; they range from devastating traumas, to lost loves, to reflections on hard choices. Some accounts are quotidian, like that of one increasingly estranged husband: “I want to feel that we’re not just roommates—that we’re not just waiting for the kids to grow up so that we can move on.” Others are deeply disconcerting, like that of a sex addict employed by a religious organization and several are heartening, like that of a mother who dares to hope that her daughter, born with life-threatening heart defects, will one day walk down the aisle: “Sometimes you need to have the audacity to believe that it will all be okay, that it is okay to have the same kinds of dreams as everyone else.”

In its complex portrayal of the common human experience, Craigslist Confessional challenges us to explore the depths of our vulnerability and expand the borders of our empathy.

About Helena Dea Bala

Helena Dea Bala immigrated to the United States as a child. To make ends meet during those difficult first years, she helped her mother clean houses on the weekends. She graduated Phi Beta Kappa from George Washington University and worked to become a lawyer and lobbyist in Washington, DC. After her day job left her feeling disconnected and unfulfilled, she deferred her student loans, applied for a credit card, and gave herself one year—one year to just listen. Five years in, she now does Craigslist Confessional full time. Find out more at CraigslistConfessional.com.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Farrah

I promise I'm not an insensitive person and I give the people who contributed their stories 5 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ and sincerely hope for the best for them. My rating reflects the moral responsibility of the author that I feel she ignored. I paid over $16 (𝙠𝙚𝙧-𝙘𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜) for this eBook and I was surprised to learn tha......more

Goodreads review by Elle

I don’t often revisit my reviews after I’ve written them, and I’ve never posted any like this before, but I do feel like there’s some extenuating circumstances in this case. So instead I’ve replaced my initial review with this message I sent to another Goodreads member who I believe has helped sprea......more

Goodreads review by Deanna

4.5 Stars!! I HAD to check this out after reading the reviews from my GR friends, Dita and Nazanin. Both of them rated it highly and after listening to it last night, I completely agree. I love books about secrets. So a book about real secrets? Well, that's even better. These stories pulled so many......more

Goodreads review by Dennis

Wow, this book is heavy on my heart. If you need a book to put things into perspective right now while dealing with COVID-19, like me, this book will help you realize that your struggles and pain are valid. I could not put this book down because the stories really gripped me from chapter one. Dealin......more