You Cant Have It All, Stassi Schroeder
You Cant Have It All, Stassi Schroeder
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You Can't Have It All
The Basic B*tch Guide to Taking the Pressure Off

Author: Stassi Schroeder

Narrator: Stassi Schroeder

Unabridged: 6 hr 2 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 09/10/2024


Synopsis

THE INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

From New York Times bestselling author, OG Vanderpump Rules star, and host of the successful podcast Stassi, a “raw, relatable…brutally funny” (Bustle) guide to rethinking the girlboss life, taking the pressure off, and the lessons Stassi Schroeder’s learned since becoming a mom of two.

Before she wrote Off with My Head, a book about hitting what felt like rock bottom, Stassi Schroeder was writing an entirely different story: a basic bitch’s guide on how to be a—wait for it—“girlboss.” But then 2020 came along and after a global pandemic, losing her job, becoming a mom, and getting married, suddenly, being a girlboss wasn’t the vibe. Instead of giving up, Stassi grew and learned from her mistakes (you know, just standard evolution).

After two and a half years in limbo, Stassi was ready to launch her career again. She’d come a long way from that temperamental “Season One Stassi.” She’d gained a new perspective on what she wants out of life: to carve a path for herself, on her terms. The thing is, all this pressure to “have it all” while girlbossing it up…it’s exhausting, and Stassi isn’t sure it’s the ticket to happiness that we all thought it was.

That’s truly what this book is about: the desire for joy, and accepting that you may not be the “perfect” parent/partner/friend/human—and that’s okay! Instead of letting mom guilt or work guilt get her down, Stassi encourages us all to take the pressure off, give ourselves grace, and lean into the things that bring us happiness. And if you need a little sauvignon blanc or Aperol spritz to get you through the tough days…cheers!

About Stassi Schroeder

Stassi Schroeder is an alumna of the hit Bravo TV series Vanderpump Rules and host of the podcast Stassi. Originally from New Orleans, she now lives in Los Angeles with her husband Beau and their two children. Her first two books, Next Level Basic and Off with My Head, were New York Times bestsellers.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Violet on October 07, 2024

Short, sweet, and just the fun escape that I needed. Readers get a peek at Stassi's growth + maturity, but also get to reminisce about the old school Vanderpump days. Her wedding, marriage, podcast, kids, self harming behavior, friendships past and present, thoughts on Scandoval...it's alllll covere......more

Goodreads review by Alex on September 18, 2024

Theres something very cozy about dipping into stassi’s life.......more

Goodreads review by Alexis on October 06, 2024

AUDIOBOOK: This one kind of fell flat for me, probably because I’m not a white millionaire mom who was on reality TV. It really made me realize that I’m not the same person I was in 2019. Still, it was a nice escape.......more

Goodreads review by Lindsay on October 01, 2024

Stassi I am begging you to go to therapy.......more

Goodreads review by Kelsey on April 13, 2025

Sorry stass…a little too much “girl-bossing” and momming when I wanted vanderpump tea 😂......more