Woe Is I, Patricia T. OConner
Woe Is I, Patricia T. OConner
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Woe Is I
The Grammarphobe's Guide to Better English in Plain English (Fourth Edition)

Author: Patricia T. O'Conner

Narrator: Gabra Zackman

Unabridged: 7 hr 30 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Penguin Audio

Published: 04/28/2026

Includes: Bonus Material Bonus Material Included


Synopsis

A revised and updated edition of the iconic grammar guide for the 21st century.

In this expanded and updated edition of Woe Is I, former editor at The New York Times Book Review Patricia T. O'Conner unties the knottiest grammar tangles with the same insight and humor that have charmed and enlightened readers of previous editions for years. With fresh insights into the rights, wrongs, and maybes of English grammar and usage, O'Conner offers in Woe Is I down-to-earth explanations and plain-English solutions to the language mysteries that bedevil all of us.

"Books about English grammar and usage are... never content with the status quo," O'Conner writes. "That's because English is not a stay-put language. It's always changing--expanding here, shrinking there, trying on new things, casting off old ones... Time doesn't stand still and neither does language."

In this fourth edition, O'Conner explains how the usage of an array of words has evolved. For example, the once-shunned "they," "them," and "their" for an unknown somebody is now acceptable. And the battle between "who" and "whom" has just about been won, O'Conner says (hint: It wasn't by "whom"). Then there's the use of "taller than me" in simple comparisons, instead of the ramrod-stiff "taller than I." "May" and "might," "use to" and "used to," abbreviations that use periods and those that don't, and the evolving definition of "unique" are all explained here by O'Conner. The result is an engaging, up-to-date and jargon-free guide to every reader's questions about grammar, style, and usage for the 21st century.

* This audiobook edition includes a downloadable PDF that contains a table of contractions, all pages from Chapter 8 on punctuations, a glossary, and bibliography from the book.

About The Author

Patricia T. O'Conner, a former editor at the New York Times Book Review, has written for many magazines and newspapers. She is the author of two other books on language and writing, Words Fail Me: What Everyone Who Writes Should Know About Writing and You Send Me: Getting It Right When You Write Online.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Kris on January 20, 2023

Considering this is one of the more popular grammar/style books, I was disappointed. The author spends more page time on jokes, complaints, and quippy remarks, rather than actually explaining the reasons behind certain grammar and style rules. For instance, the author spends an entire chapter on sar......more

Goodreads review by Rebekah on January 14, 2023

4.5 stars A book on grammar and English that makes sense and makes me laugh? I didn’t think that was possible, but this book proved it was. I have several pages flagged so I can make notes on a few words or things I struggle with. Some of the remarks made about some clichés just cracked me up. And th......more

Goodreads review by Stetson on January 27, 2026

I read this book in high school as preparation for my AP English Language and Composition course. It was part of my trajectory as a grammarian snoot, though this book takes a decidedly descriptivist approach to grammar. Usage question have declined in salience in our culture war, though the diction......more

Goodreads review by Sully (sully.reads) on May 08, 2021

Woe is I: The Grammarphobe’s Guide to Better English in Plain English by Patricia T. O’Conner #2021Reads #MayReads "Most of us don't know a gerund from a gerbil and don't care, but we'd like to speak and write as though we did." A fun, lighter version of Strunk and White’s The Element of Style. This bo......more

Goodreads review by Angela on November 11, 2015

Witty, sarcastic, whimsical, and shamelessly punny. I never imagined I could enjoy a walk through of proper grammar. It's a tedious trial for me to make myself ingest this subject, but a spoonful of sugar really does help the medicine go down. While I was deeply annoyed to discover how little I was......more


Quotes

“Lighthearted and funny . . . It’s like Strunk and White combined with S. J. Perelman—none of whom would have had the slightest objection.” —The New York Times Book Review

“Possibly the most popular book on grammar ever published.” —Writers.com

“Extraordinary . . . I’m keeping this book by my keyboard.” —The Philadelphia Inquirer

“Invigorating and entertaining . . . As vital as a dictionary for those who wish to be taken seriously in speech, in print, or on Facebook.” —Publishers Weekly (starred review)

“A nifty guidebook to modern grammar that affectionately elbows the reader on every page.” —San Francisco Chronicle