When Good People Have Affairs
Inside the Hearts & Minds of People in Two Relationships

This is one of the best books I wish I never needed to read. If you are involved in an affair, then you know it’s a confusing situation. You don’t feel like a bad person, but you’re hurting people. You can’t make sense of anything you’re feeling, and you wonder if you can even trust your feelings as......more

Instead of playing the blame game, Kirshenbaum takes the productive route and helps guide people in affairs to make the decisions they need to in order to move on, whether it's with their partner, with their new partner, or with neither of them. One of the most helpful points in this book is the way......more

I picked this up for my wife to read, as it promised to guide the reader to the best of one of three choices. Unfortunately, she went off to Idaho with her lover anyway, so this book was a bit of a disappointment. I couldn't get into reading it properly (all the way through) but skimming through it......more

I saw this book at the store and the cover and title intrigued me. Not unlike many others, my life has been touched by infidelity in several ways, with friends and family members. This is written in an interesting perspective--it is written expressly for someone who is in the middle of an affair. Th......more

i found this book when i discovered my boyfriend was not actually ending his marriage like he had told me and had another girlfriend in another state. just so you know, this type of cheating isn't covered in the book. this book is for a married person having an affair. this isn't a good choice for so......more