Wait, It Gets Worse, Lydia Slaby
Wait, It Gets Worse, Lydia Slaby
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Wait, It Gets Worse
Love, Death, and My Transformation from Control Freak to Human Being

Author: Lydia Slaby

Narrator: Lydia Slaby

Unabridged: 6 hr 33 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 03/19/2019


Synopsis

"Tender, funny, and deeply uplifting, Wait, It Gets Worse is about more than facing the unexpected; it's an everywoman's guide to living a life that matters." —Arianna Huffington With a voice that is wise, irreverent, and filled with sharp humor, Wait, It Gets Worse is a story about following all the rules only to learn the hard way that control is a lie and an illusion, and that love will save your life. Lydia Slaby was thirty-three years old and had everything she believed would make her happy: three fancy private school degrees; a successful husband who was in the inner circles of Barack Obama's presidential campaign; a high-paying job as an attorney—even an enviable yoga practice. But under the surface Lydia's life was in free-fall. Her new marriage was one argument after another, she had a job she never wanted, and for some reason she had begun to rapidly lose weight and turn a strange shade of yellowish-green. When she made a doctor's appointment to talk about the toll of extreme stress, she was instead admitted with a diagnosis of lymphoma. As a cancer survivor, Lydia tries to piece back together her marriage, her career, and her own worth. She begins to rewrite her value as a human being and build her own version of faith until, finally, she is moving forward instead of back. It's an imperfect rebirth, but "perfection" is something she must abandon if she is to at last find the perspective that will open a new, calm, healthy life.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Deborah on December 09, 2018

Reading cancer memoirs is a strange hobby, I admit. But it’s one of mine. And this is a wonderful cancer memoir. Lydia Slaby is honest and straightforward. She is able to inhabit the key moments in her experience with cancer and to describe them without the gauzy hindsight that is common in looking......more

Goodreads review by Amy on January 30, 2019

The description of the book drew me instantly, "that control is a lie" spoke to my inner control freak and outward perfectionist. As I began the book the chapter Hope spoke to me as more of an epilogue than a preface, but I forged on with the book despite that being rather off putting. Once I got in......more

Goodreads review by Kelley on January 01, 2019

I'm not sure what led me to pick this books. I love the name and the cover, but honestly the subject didn't really interest me, but nonetheless I selected it and started reading. This writing style is friendly and relaxed. You feel like you are sucked onto her couch as she tells you this wonderful, p......more

Goodreads review by Emily on October 05, 2023

Lydia Slaby's account of cancer -- and love -- is heart-rending. It's so sad, yet, thankfully, she lives. It's so funny, yet, thankfully, it doesn't get lost inside its sarcasm. One of the great joys of this memoir, other than the survival of its protagonist, is the spiritual journey on which Slaby......more

Goodreads review by Amanda on November 20, 2018

Wow! Lydia Slaby! Your raw narrartive of all that you went through over the years is amazing. Your recollection of each hospital visit and procedure shows the pain that you went through. All while your husband stepped up to the plate to be by your side. Though this book is about a difficult time, Ly......more