This is Your Mother, Erika J. Simpson
This is Your Mother, Erika J. Simpson
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This is Your Mother
A Memoir

Author: Erika J. Simpson

Narrator: Erika J. Simpson

Unabridged: 5 hr 9 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 05/06/2025


Synopsis

Named a Best Memoir of 2025 (So Far) by BookPage and Real Simple * “A beautiful story about an extraordinary mother’s gift of love and hope.” —Jeannette Walls, #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Glass Castle * “Candid...Heartbreaking...Illuminating.” —Oprah Daily

From “a writer who’s absolutely going places” (Roxane Gay), a “bewitching...innovative” (Publishers Weekly, starred review) debut memoir about a mother-daughter relationship across cycles of poverty, separation, and illness, exploring how we forge identity in the face of imminent loss.

When Erika Simpson was growing up, her mother loomed large, almost biblical in her life. A daughter of sharecroppers, middle child of ten, her origin story served as a Genesis. Her departure from home and a cheating husband, pursuing higher education along the way a kind of Exodus. Her rules for survival, often repeated like the Ten Commandments, guided Erika’s own journey into adulthood. And the most important rule? Throughout her life, Sallie Carol preached the power of a testimony—which often proved useful in talking her way out of a bind with bill collectors.

But where does a mother’s story end and a daughter’s begin? In this brave, illuminating memoir, Erika offers a joint recollection of their lives as they navigate the realities of destitution often left undiscussed. Her mother’s uncanny ability to endure Job-like trials and manifest New Testament–style miracles made her seem invincible. But while our parents may start out as gods in our lives, through her mother’s final months and fifth battle with cancer, Erika captures the moment you realize they are just people.

This gorgeously rendered story of a mother’s life through her daughter’s eyes weaves together a dual timeline, pulling inspiration from both scripture and pop culture as Erika moves through grief to a place of clarity where she can see who she is without her mom—and because of her.

About Erika J. Simpson

Erika J. Simpson is a Southern girl living in Denver, Colorado, with her partner and their black cat. She holds an MFA in creative writing from the University of Kentucky and is the recipient of the 2021 MFA Award in Nonfiction. Her essay “If You Ever Find Yourself” was published in Roxane Gay’s The Audacity and featured in Best American Essays 2022, edited by Alexander Chee. This Is Your Mother is her debut memoir, and she also writes fiction for the page and screen.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Allegra on February 02, 2025

This book serves as a reminder that the memoir is not a static form. Simpson expertly tells her story with a fresh voice and truly compelling narrative choices. I will be thinking about this one for some time. Tens tens tens!!!!......more

Goodreads review by Aggie on May 17, 2025

A heartfelt read. Shari was such a force. Erika was very lucky to have her as a mother. 🫶🏻......more

Goodreads review by Katie on February 06, 2025

4.5 stars Interesting memoir about a complex mother-daughter relationship. Full review coming soon.......more

Goodreads review by Julie on May 03, 2025

I received an ARC of this memoir in a Goodreads Giveaway. And here is my honest review… Fact or Fiction? I’ve never read a memoir that touched me quite so deeply as this one. I’ve never hoped that an author would go on to conquer the literary world with her beautifully poetic and heartfelt recollectio......more

Goodreads review by Michelle on April 28, 2025

I was elated to receive an ARC copy via GoodReads Giveaway! I have recently started entering and this was my first win! Sometimes I swear the right books just find me at the right time. It is so special. I would give this 10 stars if I could. No clue how anyone would rate this less than 5 stars but......more