The Loving Dominant

In this episode of "You probably didn't want to know".... In all seriousness, this is a pretty good resource and jumping off point. There's a lot of little things that make this pretty enjoyable, such as the bits of history and the DIY section. At the very least, it emphasizes safety and good communi......more

I bought this as a Kindle book while I was doing research for my Butterfly series. I wanted to explore the possibility of someone being dominant or submissive, without it necessarily involving sadistic or masochistic behaviour. I found this book really helpful and discovered to my delight that relat......more

Wise, insightful, informative, and well written, with a personable voice. Covers such a broad range of play scenes too. I still refer back to this now and again.......more

This is an excellent book to explain what sorts of things can be done, and, moreover HOW to use them within a loving long-term relationship - and finding an appropriate partner. Included are some contracts of submission, explaining exactly what are the hard limits which will not be crossed - which a......more

Not a thorough overview, more of a discussion on starting out and how to learn and move from beginner to more experienced, more specific on scene creation and ideas. This author canNOT spell, but the information seems sound. His bias is towards very SLOW increases in intensity, and introducing only......more