Out of the Doghouse, Robert Weiss
Out of the Doghouse, Robert Weiss
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Out of the Doghouse
A Step-by-step Relationship-saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating

Author: Robert Weiss

Narrator: Timothy Andrés Pabon

Unabridged: 4 hr 59 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 01/30/2018


Synopsis

It's all about cheating—the biggest threat to intimacy. Typically, men are good at creating rifts in relationships but terrible at mending them, especially after they've repeatedly betrayed their partner through sexual infidelity. For the most part, cheating men are both intimacy-challenged and empathy-challenged, and, as such, they lack the skills needed to overcome the damage wrought by their infidelity.

Robert Weiss has spent over twenty years in the treatment of sex and intimacy issues. He's helped both cheating men and their betrayed spouses move through the horrors of infidelity. In Out of the Doghouse he shares his expertise, illuminating the ways in which men can move beyond their usual feeble efforts to smooth things over. Saying "I'm sorry" and trying to "buy forgiveness" with flowers and jewelry may temporarily calm the stormy seas of infidelity. However, these actions do nothing to re-establish intimacy and trust—the key components to help the distraught woman feel better about her relationship over the long-term and get over the cheating.

The simple truth is, men and women are very different when it comes to intimacy and relationships. While men are able to compartmentalize things like sexual infidelity, women typically view cheating as an affront to their entire relationship. They think, "If he is lying to me about sex, he's probably lying to me about everything." For betrayed women, trust just flat-out disintegrates. And without proper guidance, men have little hope of restoring it. Weiss provides exactly the needed guidance in Out of the Doghouse, helping men move past the usual infidelity roadblocks that result from cheating in ways that will not only save a damaged relationship, but restore intimacy to make it better than ever.

About Robert Weiss

Robert Weiss, LCSW, CSAT-S, is Senior Vice President of National Clinical Development for Elements Behavioral Health, creating and overseeing addiction and mental health treatment programs for more than a dozen high-end treatment facilities, including Promises Treatment Centers in Malibu, The Ranch in rural Tennessee, and The Right Step in Texas. An internationally acknowledged clinician, Rob has served as a subject expert on the intersection of human intimacy and digital technology for multiple media outlets, including the Oprah Winfrey Network, the New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, The Daily Beast, and CNN. He is the author of several highly regarded books, including Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Love, and Porn Addiction.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Stephen

Robert has a subtle, but in your face perspective when he's giving his advice to either party. He doesn't pull any punches, his advice hits deep but at the same time it gives a certain take on what the person can possibly be feeling at the moment. Along with his tough love advice, he makes you under......more

Goodreads review by Joseph

Spot On Probably the most honest and straightforward book on this subject I have ever read. Probably the best parts of it were about how women view relationships, etc. from the emotional side of things.......more

Interesting stuff If you want to get a deeper understanding of empathy and better relate to what it’s like for woman who has been cheated on then this book is for you.......more

Goodreads review by Jeff

A very approachable and digestable book that provides hope and step-by-step encouragement for men struggling to get their lives back in order after making poor decisions. I highly recommend it!......more