Modern Friendship, Anna Goldfarb
Modern Friendship, Anna Goldfarb
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Modern Friendship
How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections

Author: Anna Goldfarb

Narrator: Anna Goldfarb

Unabridged: 8 hr 13 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 06/04/2024


Synopsis

From the “Friendship Explainer,” a definitive step-by-step guide to understanding the fundamental mechanics of friendship

Modern friendships can be painfully ambiguous. But they don’t have to be. Journalist Anna Goldfarb has your back. “It’s understandable if your friendships are floundering. You’re up against historically new forces that we, as a culture, have no precedent for navigating,” she says. With Modern Friendship, Anna shares a manual for understanding what is pushing our friendships to the brink and provides actionable advice for forming authentic, enduring connections today.

It’s never been easier to shed friendships, which is precisely why we need a new approach to keeping them strong. Anna argues that we need to update our approach to friendships in a way that accounts for the hyper-fluid society we live in. The key to forming a lasting bond is what Anna calls “Wholehearted Friendship”—proven strategies to enhance enthusiastic connection.

Blending keen insights, cutting-edge social research, and intuitive practical tools, she invites you to explore:

• Why modern friendships are so ambiguous—and how to get clarity
• How desire influences friend selection, why friendships fail, and how to hone your friendship intuition
• Mattering to others—establishing boundaries, being flexible, having fun, and setting up your friendships for success
• Tools for the tough times—exercises, prompts, scripts, and advice on keeping friendships active even when life gets hectic
• Practicing Wholehearted Friendship—how to be caring, curious, appreciative, and supportive to a friend in any situation
• Trying a 14-day Friendship Cleanse—two weeks of actionable advice to clarify your wishes in friendship and strengthen your connections, both old and new

Grasping the mechanics of friendships will liberate you from the prison of self-doubt. “Your friendships are precious. They’re vital. They matter. So let’s understand, cultivate, and harness their incredible power,” says Anna. With Modern Friendship, you’ll discover how to be a more self-assured and empowered friend to the most meaningful people in your life. Let Anna show you how.

About Anna Goldfarb

Anna Goldfarb is a journalist, author, and speaker who explores the nuances of friendships, relationships, and pop psychology. She has reported for outlets including the New York Times, The Atlantic, Time magazine, Vice, The Cut, Vox, and the Washington Post. For more, visit annagoldfarb.com.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Emily (emsalwaysreading) on June 07, 2024

Thank you to #NetGalley for an advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review! This book publishes in June 4, 2024. What to expect in this book: -Tangible, practical advice -Research and evidence based practices -Exercises to increase confidence in friendship -Anecdotes and experiences -Emp......more

Goodreads review by Sarah on February 12, 2025

Everyone clap for friendship book! —— Short Review I think this is great read for anyone trying to navigate relationships (of any kind) in adulthood. One of the biggest takeaways I got from reading is that friendship is really just showing up honestly with each other, being flexible, and enjoying eac......more

Goodreads review by Hestia on October 01, 2024

Ketika bingung usia 30an ngerasa lingkaran pertemanannya makin kecil, aku dipertemukan buku bagus ini 🥹 As introver yang punya "dunia"-nya sendiri, aku nggak besar dengan "geng" atau sirkel pertemanan ala AADC. Ya pokoknya nggak ada yang nempel terus kayak di film-film lah. Dan itu yang bikin aku bin......more

Goodreads review by Elly on February 09, 2024

"Modern Friendship" by Anna Goldfarb stands out as an invaluable resource in the realm of self-help literature. Goldfarb delves into the complexities of sustaining friendships in today's digital era, shedding light on the challenges posed by the internet in nurturing relationships. Rather than leavi......more

Goodreads review by Danielle on August 24, 2024

I hoped this book would be more insightful. I want to improve my social network and strengthen my close relationships. As an introvert working from home, it's harder for me to be social and I end up spending most of my time with my partner, which is comfortable but limiting. The book mostly covers ba......more