Live Through This, Debra Gwartney
Live Through This, Debra Gwartney
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Live Through This
A Mother's Memoir of Runaway Daughters and Reclaimed Love

Author: Debra Gwartney

Narrator: Joyce Bean

Unabridged: 9 hr 8 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 03/30/2009


Synopsis

With four young daughters and a miserably failed marriage, Debra Gwartney moves halfway across the country, to Eugene, Oregon, for a new job and what she hopes will be a new life for herself and her daughters. The two oldest, Amanda, 14, and Stephanie, 13, have a symbiotic relationship so intense they barely know where one begins and the other leaves off. They come to blame their mother for their family's dislocation, and one day the two run off together—to the streets of their own city, then San Francisco, then utterly gone.

Live Through This—as emotionally wrenching and ultimately redemptive as David Sheff's Beautiful Boy—is the story of Gwartney's frantic effort to recover the beautiful, intelligent daughters she cherishes. The harrowing subculture of the American runaway, with its random violence, its horrendously dangerous street drugs, and its patchwork of hidden shelters—none of them interested in a parent's grief—is captured by Gwartney with brilliant intensity. Faced with the unraveling of the family she thought she could hold together through blind love, Gwartney begins the painful—and universal—journey toward recognizing her own flawed motivations as a mother. The triumph of Gwartney's story is its sensitive rendering of how all three, over several years, have dug deep for forgiveness and a return to profound love.

About Debra Gwartney

Debra Gwartney is the author of Live Through This: A Mother's Memoir of Runaway Daughters and Reclaimed Love and I Am a Stranger Here Myself. She teaches in Pacific University's MFA in Writing program and lives in western Oregon.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Ayu

Jujur, saya bingung saat ingin me-review buku ini. Saya pikir, buku ini tentang gigihnya perjuangan seorang ibu dalam menghadapi anaknya tanpa saya tau apa yg diperbuat oleh sang ibu maupun sang anak. Setelah membaca halaman-halaman awal, saya baru sadar bahwa buku ini menceritakan tentang anak-anak......more

Goodreads review by Gina

I'm having a hard time formulating my review of this book, and figuring out how many stars to give it. The truth is, I'm trying very hard not be judgmental of Gwartney. On the one hand, I appreciate her raw honesty, and her ability to see and admit her own mistakes. But man, her mistakes were plenty......more

Goodreads review by Emily

I wanted to read this memoir since I heard the moving "This American Life" piece focusing on the author and her daughters. I think Gwartney admirably attempted to cop to her own failures as a mother with a straightforward portrayal of her thoughts and motivations, but she left me with a vague lack o......more

Goodreads review by Rhian

An extremely well-written and absolutely horrifying book. As mother of a couple of pre-teenagers, I read it with an agenda -- How can I keep this from happening to me? -- which made it all the more electrifying. One thing Gwartney did not include, which an editor should probably have pointed out, is......more

Goodreads review by Rachel

Interesting story but we never got an idea of what the girls were like as people at all. The author seemed completely unable to parent her children or keep her emotions in check when dealing with them. I worry for her younger daughters.......more