How To Be Dateable, Julie Krafchick
How To Be Dateable, Julie Krafchick
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How To Be Dateable
The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love

Author: Julie Krafchick, Yue Xu

Narrator: Julie Krafchick, Yue Xu

Unabridged: 9 hr 41 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 01/28/2025


Synopsis

Does dating feel like an endless maze with no way out? Find your person with this actionable, compassionate guide that will help you break free from the traps of modern dating and change your approach to love.

As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast Dateable, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu have made breaking down the nuances of the ever-evolving dating world and empowering the people within it their purpose and passion. Drawing on a decade’s worth of research from speaking to thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, Julie and Yue have learned what it takes to find love in today’s dating world. In How to Be Dateable, they’ll show you how to take control of your love life and focus on the levers that actually get you results.

Starting with a personalized dating archetypes quiz, this book will give you a richer understanding of your core dating strengths and how to turn around the obstacles that are keeping you from meeting the right people. You will discover how to:

-Feel more optimistic about finding love
-Choose partners who are aligned with your values
-Prioritize what’s in your control and release what’s not
-Date your way to find the right relationship for you

Written with the knowledge of experts and the warmth of a wise best friend, How to Be Dateable will give you a dating life that can ultimately help you find the I-can’t-believe-this-was-possible type of relationship you deserve.

About Julie Krafchick

Julie Krafchick is an expert on dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world with a background in human-centered design. She’s the co-creator and host of Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by The New York Times, HuffPostOprah Daily, and more. She’s also the executive producer and co-host of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. From working in the Silicon Valley tech scene for almost two decades, Julie has learned how technology impacts human interactions as a trained qualitative researcher and app designer. Frustrated by dating at the time, she created the app 500 Brunches to facilitate more organic, in-person meetings for friends and dates, which grew into a thriving community (and was also how Julie and Yue met and developed Dateable). Julie resides in San Francisco and is originally from Boston.

About Yue Xu

Yue Xu is a dating and relationship thought leader, and an on-air personality focused on wellness, tech, and human connection. She’s the co-creator and host of Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by The New York TimesHuffPostOprah Daily, and more. She’s also the executive producer and co-host of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. Yue started her career as a dating coach and vlogger in New York City, working with clients all over the world. Her vlog Singlefied, was featured on AskMenMatch, New York Post, Coffee Meets Bagel, The Times (London), the BBC, and more. She is a TV host and producer for shows TechtheLeadThe Gadget Show UK, and The Gadget Show China, and has appeared on MTV, AMC, Discovery, and NBC. Yue lives in Los Angeles with her dog Mojo.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Shelby on December 05, 2024

When I saw this book available for request, I was like - is this really gonna help me? In this dating climate? Anyway, I said why not, send it my way! I don’t read a lot of self-help books, but I was curious what their suggestions would be. Dating is so hard these days, especially in areas where peo......more

Goodreads review by Yetong on February 22, 2025

kind of a surprising read genre/categories wise because i tend to shield away from “self help”/“how to” books. but i am trying to heal the relationships in my life and (maybe) opening up to the idea of putting myself out there again, so i gave it a shot, and actually really enjoyed it. felt like ther......more

Goodreads review by Analie on March 27, 2025

The cover is great. The content is not particularly deep, but it is practical and captures the pitfalls of modern dating well.......more

Goodreads review by Morgan on April 23, 2025

I AM dateable, dammit! This book somehow held up a mirror to every insecurity and fear I’ve ever had when it comes to dating. We really are all going through it. I took SO many notes. In comparison to How to Not Die Alone, I found this book much more relatable, practical, and grounded in personal grow......more

Goodreads review by L on May 01, 2025

5 stars⭐️ this was so insightful and informative!! i recommend this to anyone trying to navigate the dating world <3......more