Dangerous Love, Chad Ford
Dangerous Love, Chad Ford
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Dangerous Love
Transforming Fear and Conflict at Home, at Work, and in the World

Author: Chad Ford

Narrator: Chad Ford

Unabridged: 5 hr 47 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Ascent Audio

Published: 06/23/2020


Synopsis

"Chad Ford reminds us that humanity lies within all of us, and although conflict is everywhere in today's world, we have the tools we need to overcome obstacles and to thrive. This is a fantastic, timely book that I highly recommend."
-Steve Kerr, Head Coach, Golden State Warriors

Knowing how to transform conflict is critical in both our personal and professional lives. Yet, by and large, we are terrible at it. The reason, says longtime mediator Chad Ford, is fear. When conflict comes, our instincts are to run or fight.

To transform conflict, Ford says we need to turn toward the people we are in conflict with, put down our physical and emotional weapons, and really love them with the kind of love that leads us to treat others as fellow human beings, not as objects in our way. We have to open ourselves up with no guarantee that anyone on the other side will do the same. While this can feel even more dangerous than conflict itself, it allows us to see the humanity of others so clearly that their needs and desires matter to us as much as our own.

Ford shows dangerous love in action through examples ranging from his work in the Middle East to a deeply moving story about reconciling with his father. He explains why we disconnect from people at the very time we need to be most connected and the predictable patterns of justification and escalation that ensue. Most importantly, he gives us a path to practice dangerous love in the conflicts that matter most to us.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Suep on March 19, 2016

I found the beginning super engrossing; what happens to his daughter and being where they are (don't want to give anything away) but the rest of the book..... not so engrossing. Yes, I'm all for helping others. I couldn't do what he did; family at risk. It's one thing to serve without your family pr......more

Goodreads review by Vicky on March 29, 2019

A heartfelt account of a family's work in Mauritania before and after nine eleven. The book deals with a shooting that took place, and how they dealt with the pain, the social/ religious issues, and the continuing work of World Vision in the country. It emphasizes the fact that mainstream Islam diff......more

Goodreads review by Derrick on March 10, 2024

Genuinely. A true story of love and its astounding results in the face of hatred.......more

Goodreads review by James on March 01, 2016

Ray Norman is scholar-in-residence at Messiah College and the director of Fatih Leadership, Water, Sanitation and Hygiene at World Vision International and the former national director for World Vision's program in Isalmic Republic of Mauritania. While he was in Mauritania, in the wake of 9-11, he a......more

Goodreads review by Nancy on February 02, 2022

We met Ray and Hélène years ago in Niger, but lost track of them when they left Niger, so I had never heard this story. Even though I've never experienced what they did, because of the location and similar situations, much of it resonated with me. This book left me reflecting on how we handle hardsh......more