The Rye Bread Marriage, Michaele Weissman
The Rye Bread Marriage, Michaele Weissman
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The Rye Bread Marriage
How I Found Happiness with a Partner I'll Never Understand

Author: Michaele Weissman

Narrator: Barrie Kreinik

Unabridged: 7 hr 21 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 08/15/2023


Synopsis

Experience a beautiful, humorous, universal love story with this memoir about learning to live with another human being and how every relationship is a mystery—and a miracle. 
 
When they first meet, John, a dashing European, a Latvian refugee, a physics PhD, is hoping to settle down. Michaele, a fast-talking American college student, is hungry for an independent life as a writer and historian. When they meet again some years later, Michaele is ready. Or so she thinks. And opposites attract, right?

The life Michaele and John build together intermingles sweetness—their love of good food, entertaining, and family—with complications, including their ethnic and religious differences (Michaele is Jewish; John is not), the trauma John endured as a child during WWII, Michaele’s thwarted ambitions, and even John’s preoccupation with Latvian rye. When he opens a successful company marketing rye bread, Michaele embarks on a European journey in search of her husband’s origins, excavating poignant stories of war, privation, and resilience. She realizes at last that rye bread represents everything about John’s homeland that he loved and lost. Eventually Michaele comes to love rye bread, too.

An enticing memoir for readers of Dani Shapiro’s Hourglass, Bess Kalb’s Nobody Will Tell You This But Me, and Heather Havrilesky’s Foreverland, The Rye Bread Marriage asks, how do the stories we live and the stories we inherit play out in our relationships? After forty years of marriage, Michaele Weissman has a few answers.

Reviews

Goodreads review by Di on October 15, 2023

I'm not sure what I expected when I started reading this book. But, I am sure that what I read was not anywhere on my horizon. I think my expectations were that it would be about a mixed marriage. He is a Latvian refugee, she is an American-born Jew. Two very different cultures. I thought it would be......more

Goodreads review by Heather on August 22, 2023

This is an interesting story about a marriage to a Latvian refugee that was displaced during WWII and the life long impacts of people adrift and the loss of a homeland and the horrific memories made in formative years. This memoir is somewhat unfocused but I didn’t mind it much. At the end she menti......more

Goodreads review by Suzanne on January 03, 2024

Really interesting to hear about WWII Latvian history. I was inspired to buy bread from her husband's company after reading the book. Her husband's passion for rye bread is deeply moving and rich with history.......more

Goodreads review by Nora on March 21, 2024

I picked this up very randomly because I’ve been thinking a lot about the Institution of Marriage recently. I enjoyed it but am not sure I would recommend it to someone else, for the same reasons as other reviewers, and the fact that the author’s voice is sometimes eye-roll levels of pretentious. I’......more

Goodreads review by Jen on November 22, 2023

Listened to the audio book. Overall would rate it 3.5 ⭐️. The first half of the book was rather slow and didn’t really grab my attention. I found the second half so much better and really wanted to learn more about how Black Rooster Foods grew and the overall Latvian rye bread market.......more


Quotes

“In her captivating memoir, Michaele Weissman affirms that we are all more connected than we think. With a little bit of humor and a lot of grace, Weissman makes the case that marriage is an emotional continuum, and love is just one end of it. This book is all at once honest, relatable and endearing.”
 —Pati Jinich, New York Times bestselling cookbook author and host + executive producer of PBS’s La Frontera and Pati's Mexican Table

“Weissman's striking reverence, her bold humility, and her compassion for her brilliant and traumatized Latvian husband as she unearths his compulsion for his home country’s bread make this tale of food and love and life and war soar. I closed the last pages with tears in my eyes for the gift of these complex histories, this compelling love story—and a determination to find the best rye bread in town.”
 —Lauren Francis-Sharma, author of Book of the Little Axe

“This book is a love letter, one that explores relationships and marriage. It’s a book about the history and the beauty of bread. But most important it is a courageous book about the complexity of love.”
 —Mark Furstenberg, James Beard Foundation’s Outstanding Baker 2017 and owner of Bread Furst Bakery

“Beautiful. Michaele Weissman takes us on a magical journey across continents and time, and I doubt there is a couple who won’t see themselves in the story of this marriage. The trail of rye bread crumbs (real and symbolic) led me to an emotional glimpse of the impact of love, war and fear on our humanity and who we become.”


 —Liz Neumark, CEO and founder, Great Performances Catering, and author of Sylvia’s Table.

"What is marriage? is a question asked and answered throughout this engaging, thoughtful, and compassionate memoir. The Rye Bread Marriage is a wonderful read."

 —Elizabeth Poliner, author, As Close to Us as Breathing

"A charming, insightful meditation on the intersection of love, family, and food."—Kirkus Reviews