The Skin Above My Knee, Marcia Butler
The Skin Above My Knee, Marcia Butler
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The Skin Above My Knee

Author: Marcia Butler

Narrator: Marcia Butler

Unabridged: 6 hr 50 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Published: 02/21/2017


Synopsis

The unflinching story of a professional oboist who finds order and beauty in music as her personal life threatens to destroy her.

Music was everything for Marcia Butler. Growing up in an emotionally desolate home with an abusive father and a distant mother, she devoted herself to the discipline and rigor of the oboe, and quickly became a young prodigy on the rise in New York City's competitive music scene.

But haunted by troubling childhood memories while balancing the challenges of a busy life as a working musician, Marcia succumbed to dangerous men, drugs and self-destruction. In her darkest moments, she asked the hardest question of all: Could music truly save her life?

A memoir of startling honesty and subtle, profound beauty, The Skin Above My Knee is the story of a woman finding strength in her creative gifts and artistic destiny. Filled with vivid portraits of 1970's New York City, and fascinating insights into the intensity and precision necessary for a career in professional music, this is more than a narrative of a brilliant musician struggling to make it big in the big city. It is the story of a survivor.

One of 2017's 35 over 35 One of the Washington Post's Top 10 Classical Music Moments of the Year

About Marcia Butler

Marcia Butler, a former professional oboist and interior designer, is a documentary film maker and author of the memoir The Skin Above My Knee and debut novel, Pickle's Progress. With her second novel, Oslo, Maine, Marcia draws on indelible memories of performing for fifteen years at a chamber music festival in central Maine. While there, she came to love the diverse topography, the earnest and quirky people, and especially the majestic and endlessly fascinating moose who roam, at their perpetual peril, among the humans.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Peebee on October 10, 2017

This memoir was amazing. Simply amazing. It initially appealed to me because of Butler's background as a professional musician -- an oboe player -- and I was a band geek who learned to play the oboe when it was needed for a solo for a high school concert. I found the music parts fascinating, because......more

Goodreads review by Kathleen on July 01, 2017

Oh my god. This book. So much feeling, so much pain, so much beauty. It's affected me physically like a punch in the stomach, but in a good way. I kept rereading passages, for the sheer wonder of them as I read the last third in one setting, fascinated, horrified and ultimately moved. This one's a k......more

Goodreads review by Meher on March 14, 2017

I had no idea what an oboe was when I picked this book. I chose it for its absolutely brilliant title, a very intriguing summary and the spectacular cover art. I must add - the book took me on a ride far more emotional than what I had bargained for. How art and passion can save from a damning childh......more

Goodreads review by Marsmannix on May 17, 2017

This book just tried too hard. I didn't get the inter-chapters in italic about "Kristen" maybe i'm too stupid. The author had all the advantages but decided to make a shitload of bad decisions. then write a book about it.......more

Goodreads review by lola on November 07, 2017

sometimes a memoir can be a revelation. because of lily's great review, I reserved this at the library. it was just stunning. I learned so much about musicians and being a professional oboist. as well as that art can often just help people get out of unimaginable situations.......more


Quotes

"A tale of triumph over a childhood rife with abuse, yet blessed with talent. Filled with insight and honesty, [Butler's] memoir flows like a series of gorgeous musical phrases, taking the reader on a journey as uplifting as it is disturbing.... Her courageous memoir is a testament to the power of art to inspire and heal."
Washington Post

"Marcia Butler's original and lyrically written memoir charts her rise from oboe prodigy to freelance professional on the international classical scene. Transportive portraits of Carnegie Hall concerts share space with memories of childhood trauma and gritty slices from 1970s New York."—New York Magazine

"For Marcia Butler, the oboe was a protective garment and a ticket to the world, though both applications came at a steep price.... The Skin Above My Knee ultimately succeeds because it leaves readers knowing a thing or two about an esoteric world."—Meghan Daum, New York Times Book Review

"Impressive.... [Butler's] imaginative prose fires the senses dramatically. Music aficionados will find an extraordinarily kindred spirit here, and lovers of memoir will find this a sensationally satisfying one."
Booklist

"A moving account of how passion and creativity can be powerful weapons against neglect, cruelty, and self-harm."—Publishers Weekly

"[Butler] writes lovingly and beautifully.... The light and the dark fight it out in this fierce, fiery memoir."
Kirkus

"Marcia Butler has written a beautiful memoir -- meticulously nuanced, daringly honest, and utterly inspiring. I'm not sure I've ever read a book that captures so fully the ability music has to transport, sustain, defend and elevate struggling human beings through difficult times."
Tim Page, Pulitzer Prize winning music critic, The Washington Post, author of Parallel Play and Dawn Powell: A Biography

"Gorgeously written, The Skin Above My Knee takes the reader from the world's most lauded concert venues into the innermost sanctums of musician's lives in New York. Always honest and admirably adverse to self-pity, Marcia Butler's beautiful book cuts its devastating insights with poetic love for the world. My heart broke in several places, and leapt in several others. When I finished reading, I felt as if I understood music on a level usually reserved for world class musicians. Stunning."—Marie-Helene Bertino, author of 2 A.M at The Cat's Pajamas

"Heartbreaking, page turning, and ultimately redemptive, The Skin Above My Knee is a dazzling memoir about life as an internationally recognized classical musician and about one woman's journey to the only sort of love that lasts-self-acceptance. An insider's look at the world of professional performance and a moving account of one woman's effort to transmute pain into beauty, this book will appeal to anyone who has ever wondered how you get to Carnegie Hall or how to survive family. Reader, she succeeds beautifully."—E.J. Levy, author of Love, In Theory

"In her debut memoir, The Skin Above My Knee, Marcia Butler shows us how music - listening to it, playing it, losing it, and rediscovering it - can save us. With bravery and honesty, she unflinchingly tells her story. And through it all, music resonates and becomes the soundtrack for us all."
Ann Hood, author of The Book That Matters Most