The Engagement Game, JoiMarie McKenzie
The Engagement Game, JoiMarie McKenzie
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The Engagement Game
Why I Said "I Don't" to Marriage and "I Do" to Me

Author: Joi-Marie McKenzie

Narrator: Joi-Marie McKenzie

Unabridged: 7 hr 47 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Center Street

Published: 03/21/2017


Synopsis

Joi-Marie almost has it all; a thriving career, a supportive family, great friends, and an apartment in Manhattan. What she doesn't have is a husband.

Ambitious, confident, and successful, Joi-Marie believes she has it all figured out. At 28 years old, she has an enviable job as a producer, covering entertainment in New York City. Her close-knit family is loving and encouraging, and her boyfriend, Adam, is as close to perfect as you can get -- except for the fact that he won't propose.

Like most women, Joi-Marie has a checklist of what the perfect life looks like. She has the career, the friends, the apartment, and the lifestyle she has always wanted. But, when the husband she wants doesn't fall into place, she decides to play the game-theengagement game-in order to get Adam to drop down on one knee.

After receiving a laundry list of advice on how to secure a proposal -- even researching how to cook "engagement chicken" -- Joi-Marie realizes that, in the process of trying to attain her perfect life, she has slowly become a person she doesn't recognize. With this discovery, she must make a decision: pretend to be someone she's not in order to have the life she envisioned. . .or have the courage to be herself and find her happily ever after in a way she never expected.

Reviews

Goodreads review by peruseandschmooze on May 08, 2018

I read this book about 8 months ago and it was a page turner! Guilty: I thought it was a self help by the title of how to deal with this stage of dating and wanting a rock on my finger and wanting to make single boss moves all at the same time. Lol HOWEVER, this novel explores romantic relationships......more

Goodreads review by Crystal on September 12, 2017

This book was great. Quick read because it dealt with real life relationship issues and hearing the author speak last week it felt like a connection.Highly recommend this book to anyone that is single or dating.......more

Goodreads review by Christie on April 06, 2017

I always enjoy stumbling on a book that that is a "coming of age" of sorts for someone like me (in my 30s). The Engagement Game brought back some old memories that reminded me of how wisdom and maturity are such a blessing and of how nonexistent my tolerance for foolishness in relationship is now co......more

Goodreads review by Roxanne on February 27, 2017

This is a Goodreads win review. This is a cute book about a woman who has everything she needs in life except her boyfriend will not propose. So she goes with a bunch of things that she thinks will make him ask her. But along the way she finds out her perfect life she sees may not include him and sh......more

Goodreads review by wellreadtraveler on August 24, 2017

Although I’m not single, I don’t think you have to be to enjoy Joi-Marie’s new book The Engagement Game . This is a memoir about a girl who has it all, great job, friends and family by her side and success. She’s just missing one thing, someone to share it all with! Joi-Marie has a long term boyfrie......more


Quotes

"In an age where looking for love means fielding meager advances made over DM and swiping aimlessly through apps and online profiles, Joi-Marie McKenzie's The Engagement Game offers a brutally, beautifully honest take on what it really means to be a smart, sexy, single and seeking twenty-something, navigating today's volatile dating minefield in a driven - at times even desperate - search for her fairytale ending."—Janine Rubenstein, Staff Editor, People Magazine

"Women like Joi-Marie seem like they have it all. But in this candid memoir, she peels back the layers of the glamorous life to reveal the anxiety and striving, the dodgy guys and the workplace absurdities. Still, her buoyant sense of humor makes it fun to accompany her on this journey through young adulthood."—Amy Argetsinger, The Washington Post

"The Engagement Game is a must read for our time. It is a great tome for young women who need time to first discover themselves before they say yes to discovering someone else in marriage."—Sophia A. Nelson, award winning author of The Woman Code: 20 Powerful Keys to Unlock Your Life.

"The Engagement Game is not only an engaging read but courageous. So many women have been told they need a man, marriage, or motherhood to be happy. Joi-Marie McKenzie reminds us that what women really need is the freedom to define happiness on our own terms."—Keli Goff, Columnist, The Daily Beast

"Buckle up. Reading The Engagement Game is like brunch with your best friend where she tells you all the crazy highs (hello international travel and swoon-worthy dates) and excruciating lows (did he really just say that?) on her quest to marry a man she loves. Joi-Marie's transparency and incredible writing is a breath of fresh air in today's wild west dating scene. Every woman should read this universal story of finding yourself in the journey to Mrs. life."—Charreah K. Jackson, Essence Relationships Editor and author of Boss Bride

"The road to deep and meaningful relationships has potholes, barriers, twists and turns. Cultural expectation, societal and religious pressures along with the onslaught of instant information, worldviews and opinion can make the trip complex. Joi-Marie shares her road trip honestly. She gives a hilarious and fresh take on how looking for that "forever relationship" can lead to discovering yourself."—Bishop Vashti Murphy McKenzie, author of Journey to the Well and Not Without a Struggle

"A hilarious and unique take on dating that also reveals how sisterhood, daughterhood, friendship, and Spirit can lead to a deeper relationship with self and unbounded self-love."—Chanel Craft Tanner, Crunk Feminist Collective, Assistant Director, Center for Women at Emory University

Joi-Marie McKenzie's debut memoir The Engagement Game is friggin' hilarious and sometimes cringe-inducing time machine, shooting me back to my late 20s and those hours-long brunches spent dissecting what "he" meant by some text, G-chat or Facebook poke (remember Facebook pokes?). It'll be a fun and eye-opening trip down memory lane for some and just last week for others. McKenzie expertly captures not just the heartache of sticking it out with Mr. Right Now but that triumphant Aha! moment when you decide to follow your gut and get to the joy on the other side.—Helena Andrews, Washington Post columnist and author of Bitch is the New Black

"Rarely do I see myself reflected in books: A young Black career-woman trying to navigate life and find The One at the same time! Joi-Marie McKenzie hilariously captures that adventure in this relatable, laugh-out-loud funny book."—Arianna Davis, Entertainment Features Writer at Refinery 29

"The Engagement Game is a compelling tale capturing Joi-Marie's experience as a savvy, successful young woman looking to find and keep love. Ultimately, this journey provides her with an important life lesson on how to remain true to self while seeking marriage. Through her humorous and witty writing, Joi-Marie delivers an engaging read that celebrates independence and freedom among women everywhere."—Lilly Workneh, Black Voices Senior Editor at The Huffington Post