12 Smart Things to Do When the Booze ..., Allen Berger, PhD
12 Smart Things to Do When the Booze ..., Allen Berger, PhD
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12 Smart Things to Do When the Booze and Drugs Are Gone
Choosing Emotional Sobriety through Self-Awareness and Right Action

Author: Allen Berger, PhD

Narrator: Matthew Boston

Unabridged: 5 hr 24 min

Format: Digital Audiobook Download

Publisher: Tantor Media

Published: 01/28/2020


Synopsis

The author of the classic 12 Stupid Things That Mess Up Recovery offers a fresh list of "smart" things to do to attain and sustain emotional sobriety.

Whether it's called "dry drunk" or "white knuckle sobriety," it's that stage in recovery when we realize that "putting the plug in the jug" isn't enough. The next step is taking responsibility for the emotional immaturity that fuels our addictive personality and has a tremendous impact on ourselves and others.

Allen Berger, PhD, draws on the teachings of Bill W. and psychotherapy pioneers to offer twelve hallmarks of emotional sobriety that, when practiced, give people the confidence to be accountable for their behavior, ask for what they want and need, and grow and develop a deeper trust in the process of life. These smart things include: understanding who you are and what's important to you; learning not to take others' reactions personally; trusting your inner compass; and taking responsibility for your reactions to problematic situations.

It is in these practices that we find release from what Bill W. described as an "absolute dependency" on people or circumstances, and develop the tools to find prestige, security, and belonging within.

About Allen Berger, PhD

Allen Berger, PhD, a popular public speaker and nationally recognized expert on the science of recovery, is the author of 12 Stupid Things That Mess Up Recovery, 12 Smart Things to Do When the Booze and Drugs Are Gone, and 12 Hidden Rewards of Making Amends. His pamphlet, "How to Get the Most Out of Group Therapy," helps clients in treatment, continuing care, or Twelve Step groups understand what happens in group meetings and how these meetings help members acquire recovery skills. Dr. Berger lives in Los Angeles, California.


Reviews

Goodreads review by Jeri on February 12, 2013

This book is about Emotional Sobriety. I think even non-addicts can gain a lot of insight from the book.......more

Goodreads review by Steve on January 17, 2021

Like an intro post-graduate course Twelve steps, fine. But it’s easy to treat it like a checkbox and not keep learning. They are my foundation but after reading this great book, realize extracting the life satisfaction and value inherent in achieving (and practicing) Emotional Sobriety, will bring my......more

Goodreads review by Jay on September 25, 2021

"You can only achieve emotional sobriety if you are living your life, rather than meeting someone else’s expectations."......more

Goodreads review by Zac on April 18, 2023

Thought provoking and honest Good read for someone early on in their sobriety journey, it gives valuable information on the hard truth that you and you alone are the catalyst for change in your life. Dr. Berger also provides so refreshing and unique ways in which we can change our perspective and ou......more

Goodreads review by Abigail on March 28, 2023

This is an extraordinary book. So helpful! The title is misleading as the implication is you have to be a drunk or an addict for it to apply. It may be the next step in their sobriety, but for those of us without an addiction it is the next step in our personal evolution. Emotional sobriety is somet......more